leoc1973 Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 So me and the ex girlfriend broke up 6 weeks ago. The love of my life!! Totally crushed. I lost 35 lbs in a month, its really nice when girls start smiling at you again. So I have gotten to the point where I am not thinking about her every 5 seconds. I went out last week with a few friends, met a girl(very pretty and a great body) just as pretty as the ex. Started talking to her and she was very interesting, very intelligent, the kind of ball buster girl that guys love to have as a girlfriend. I got her number and been texting a lot and a few calls. So I end up making a date with her. We went out and it started raining so she says well that kinda ruined the night I guess you can just take me home. So I take her home and do the whole walk her to her door thing trying to work up the courage to kiss her goodnight but I didn't think she was interested cause she wanted to go home. Anyways we end up kissing and it was still pouring out so she tells me to come in. We were both soaked so she goes into her bedroom I am assuming to change her clothes but comes out naked. Well except a nice thong. Perfect body we start getting into it. My clothes were off and I tell her that I don't have anything(condom) because I had no intention of having sex that night. She tells me that she is on the pill. Oh my god are you serious. I was thinking of making this girl my girlfriend down the road and she pulls this ****. Anyways I was going to have sex with her because lets face it if a girl with a perfect body is in front of you naked its kinda hard to resist. Anyways I end up telling her lets slow it down a little. She says its ok we can cuddle. We ended up falling asleep(naked) in the morning she tries again. I tell her that I barely know her she says don't worry I am clean aren't you? I say yes but I still would prefer to wear a condom at first. Anyways I end up leaving and she keeps texting me over and over she really likes me a lot but I have lost every bit of respect for her. Sorry if she is willing to sleep with me that fast with no condom then I don't think I want to get to know her. She ruined it. yuck!! Ladies if you like a guy do not I repeat do not have sex with him for at least a month. He will like you more for it. I guess my question is am i being a prude? Don't all men think this way or is it me? Link to post Share on other sites
KR10N Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 You sound like your a good guy. You certainly put the clichés to shame. Link to post Share on other sites
Mag-Lone-Freak Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 No, you're not a prude for being safe! Being on the pill doesn't protect you from stds. You don't have to wait a MONTH before getting intimate, sometimes a relationship may unfold after a one night stand, its different for everyone, it really all depends on the person and situation, but definitely wear a condom, and if she doesn't care, there's something suspiscious about that. Link to post Share on other sites
KR10N Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 definitely wear a condom, and if she doesn't care, there's something suspiscious about that.I have actually heard of people who have sex w/ the intention of spreading STDs, AIDs, etc. They're sick people. Link to post Share on other sites
Mag-Lone-Freak Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 No, you're not a prude for being safe! Being on the pill doesn't protect you from stds. You don't have to wait a MONTH before getting intimate, sometimes a relationship may unfold after a one night stand, its different for everyone, it really all depends on the person and situation, but definitely wear a condom, and if she doesn't care, there's something suspiscious about that. Link to post Share on other sites
Spices Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 I agree with this. I never jump into anything. I waited longer than 3 months with my current boyfriend. He said that out of all the girls he's ever dated, he waited the longest for me. He said it was awesome, because he got to know and fall in love with the real me. He knew that he wasn't just in it for sex. Link to post Share on other sites
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 I agree with this. I never jump into anything. I waited longer than 3 months with my current boyfriend. He said that out of all the girls he's ever dated, he waited the longest for me. He said it was awesome, because he got to know and fall in love with the real me. He knew that he wasn't just in it for sex. ^^^^^^ Agree... I'd rather wait. And no you're not weird I would lose all respect for a girl for doing this. Link to post Share on other sites
DreamerGirl27 Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 I would make whoever I was with get tested before believing "yeah I am clean". Link to post Share on other sites
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