ProjekctionMan Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t282992/ Need I say more? Stop giving women the power to reject you for a stupid reason like this. Link to post Share on other sites
Wolf18 Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 /cue OMG u have to b urself and the right girl will luv u no matter what. By keeping this to urself ur being dishonest!!!!11 Keep prostitute experiences, virginity, lack of female company, etc, all to yourself. Considering the skeletons (better yet, mass graves), the average woman has laying around in her closet that you'll never know about, any one of these secrets is not a big deal. Link to post Share on other sites
vsmini Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Ok - sounds fine with me. But I'll just end up having the power to reject the guy for the stupid lie he told to me in the first place. Nothing like starting out any kind of relationship on lies. Link to post Share on other sites
chuckles11 Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 (edited) Ok - sounds fine with me. But I'll just end up having the power to reject the guy for the stupid lie he told to me in the first place. Nothing like starting out any kind of relationship on lies. Honestly, who cares? Many women would reject the guy for admitting to being an older virgin in the first place. Also, the more invested in a guy a woman is, the less likely she is to reject him for something like this. Playing the averages, the OP is exactly right. One thing I've noticed from these forums is that guys tend to over-share. Guys should just stop giving up incriminating information early in relationships, if at all.. Edited June 17, 2011 by chuckles11 Link to post Share on other sites
stepka Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t282992/ Need I say more? Stop giving women the power to reject you for a stupid reason like this. Yeah that one made me cringe too, and I'm a woman. I see nothing wrong with it and I see nothing wrong with keeping that info to yourself. It's your business. Just don't badger her for details of her life either. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 BTDT, worked out fine. With the right person, it won't matter. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Keep prostitute experiences, virginity, lack of female company, etc, all to yourself. Considering the skeletons (better yet, mass graves), the average woman has laying around in her closet that you'll never know about, any one of these secrets is not a big deal. Great advice. No sane woman would ever ask those things. If she does, just turn it around and ask how many men she's been with and watch her get defensive. Link to post Share on other sites
irc333 Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Great advice. No sane woman would ever ask those things. If she does, just turn it around and ask how many men she's been with and watch her get defensive. Yeah, and she'll probably even lie about the numbers lol Link to post Share on other sites
SJC2008 Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Thats what I'm worried about. I'm no virgin but am VERY inexperienced for a man my age. Our soceity is so quick to judge people. This world sucks for shy people. Relationship EXPERIENCE is overrated IMO. People are who they are and usually don't change. Whether you are a good person and will work together in a R, or if you are a manipulaive control freak, you'll be that person whether you had 10 gf's/bf's or only 1. Look at the divorce rate, I guess the EXPERIENCE really matters LMAO. Link to post Share on other sites
phineas Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t282992/ Need I say more? Stop giving women the power to reject you for a stupid reason like this. what I find interesting is the OP of above linked thread, 6 months in did not know the guy lacked experience. I mean you'd think someone as "experienced" as the OP would of picked up on that. Right? Or maybe OP is like a total slut (am I going to jail now because I just committed a hate crime) and she's afraid HE will run when he finds out how much mileage she really has. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t282924/ Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 /cue OMG u have to b urself and the right girl will luv u no matter what. By keeping this to urself ur being dishonest!!!!11 Keep prostitute experiences, virginity, lack of female company, etc, all to yourself. Considering the skeletons (better yet, mass graves), the average woman has laying around in her closet that you'll never know about, any one of these secrets is not a big deal. So what happens when it's time to have sex and you're extremely nervous? Link to post Share on other sites
stepka Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 So what happens when it's time to have sex and you're extremely nervous? You let her believe that it's because she is so wonderful. Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 You let her believe that it's because she is so wonderful. ................ Link to post Share on other sites
bac Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t282992/ Need I say more? Stop giving women the power to reject you for a stupid reason like this. Your name 'projectionman' is right because only males do believe that the more vaginas they put their p....ses in, the greater their value is. As a female, I can not figure out why putting a p....s in many vaginas makes a male to be so valuable. Do you think you put your penis in vagina #100 any better? In fact, you do it much worse. Link to post Share on other sites
WhisperinnWinds Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Guys definitely over-share. The ones with past experience - in my experience - either go on about their exes and regale you with every story about their lives with them (including sexually) or the ones without experience feel the need to tell you pronto that they're completely inexperienced virgins. None of this stuff should come up, especially so early on in a relationship. On the surface, being a virgin says nothing about you - except for being a virgin. Could you be a nutso and that's why you've never dated? Sure. But it's equally as good life circumstances such as location, schooling, and a shy personality could affect it. I would date a virgin. I would also date a non-virgin. I've dated both lots and it didn't affect anything if they were good men. Link to post Share on other sites
BetheButterfly Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 With the right person, it won't matter. True la la la la la (filling up space) Link to post Share on other sites
rafallus Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 (edited) One thing I've noticed from these forums is that guys tend to over-share. Guys should just stop giving up incriminating information early in relationships, if at all.. I agree, just shut your mouth and go caveman. I embarrased myself royally that way once, because I felt it was somehow necessary to say. Needless to say, it was not. I mean you'd think someone as "experienced" as the OP would of picked up on that. Right?All the more reason not to. If you do things well physically and she can't tell you're inexperienced, what's the point of saying? You risk losing your sexual momentum. If she could tell by your clumsiness, then rather obviously it's no use saying that. So what happens when it's time to have sex and you're extremely nervous? I was not, even at the first time - too aroused to worry about that kind of crap. Edited June 17, 2011 by rafallus Link to post Share on other sites
Author ProjekctionMan Posted June 17, 2011 Author Share Posted June 17, 2011 Your name 'projectionman' is right because only males do believe that the more vaginas they put their p....ses in, the greater their value is. As a female, I can not figure out why putting a p....s in many vaginas makes a male to be so valuable. Do you think you put your penis in vagina #100 any better? In fact, you do it much worse. Uh, no. Projekction is the name of a King Crimson song. So I am a King Crimson fan...so what? I knew someone would bring that up as an argument! I am not projecting, this is actually a serious issue for many guys. Link to post Share on other sites
Sanman Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Thats what I'm worried about. I'm no virgin but am VERY inexperienced for a man my age. Our soceity is so quick to judge people. This world sucks for shy people. Relationship EXPERIENCE is overrated IMO. People are who they are and usually don't change. Whether you are a good person and will work together in a R, or if you are a manipulaive control freak, you'll be that person whether you had 10 gf's/bf's or only 1. Look at the divorce rate, I guess the EXPERIENCE really matters LMAO. Eureka, I have figured it out!!!!! The divorce rate is so high because people got more experience, realized they are now more in demand, and decided they needed to move up in the world! :lmao::lmao: Seriously, even if you are nervous there is no real difference between a virgin and a guy with 1-2 previous partners. Even with more experience, the first time with someone knew is usually awkward if you are not drunk. Link to post Share on other sites
Sanman Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Since there is less cultural and financial pressure in westernized nations forcing people to pair up and get married, people have created all sorts of nutty criteria needed to get into a relationship. The truth is that 50 years ago this would have not been an issue anywhere as people rarely dated until 30 years of age and this whole sleeping around thing is a recent phenomenon. Most people's grand parents were married by 23 and thus fewer options and sleeping around. Link to post Share on other sites
krz12 Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 So what happens when it's time to have sex and you're extremely nervous? There are pills for that. Link to post Share on other sites
musemaj11 Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 A wise man knows never to expose his shortcomings. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 One can be plenty 'experienced' without dickinsider, which is the definition of 'virginity'. I would heartily suggest those who are older and still virgins to work on getting experience with women in general and let the take care of itself. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 One can be plenty 'experienced' without dickinsider, which is the definition of 'virginity'. I would heartily suggest those who are older and still virgins to work on getting experience with women in general and let the take care of itself. LOL, great commercial. One thing that guys with a lack of experience need to do is practice taking risks. It's really easy to spend time with a girl you like and pretend that she's a guy. I've done that for several years and it really doesn't get you anywhere. Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 I'm actually amused by the amount of immaturity in this thread. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts