Night-Pheonix Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 I just want to know about how many time a week everyone sees the people they're going out with, or went out with. I'm looking for an average to use... any and all feedback is greatly appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
MarKus Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 Well when i was going out with my g/f....currently on a break of 3 months requested by her (going out 3 years) I miss her Throughout the whole time we saw eachother every day and stayed over one or the others houses everynight of the week....she really really wanted this....i did to (to an extent)....but it got a bit to much.....not to much time for youself.....and it is suffacating....in eachothers pockets all the time...it aint healthy.....it can sometimes cause friction....i told her this, because we would argue about stupid things....i told her we should have sometime to ourselfs otherwise we would drive eachother away....i didnt want that....but she wanted us to be together ALL the time i mean ALL THE TIME And she wants this break....hypocrite or what. Anyway what im saying is....please have time for yourselfs....then you can look forward to seeing them....and not get stuck in a routine....its healthy that way Link to post Share on other sites
Author Night-Pheonix Posted April 19, 2004 Author Share Posted April 19, 2004 Hmm... Ok, Now I've been with my girlfriend just about everyday for quite a while... but It really hasn't caused eny friction... I mean any... yeah sure we've got things that go wrong, but I haven't noticed any habits I can't deal with. Hmmm... not sure what the hell must be going on for you... I just hope that doesn't happen to me. I'm guessing though that what you're stating is the difference between the people that get married, and the people that don't... There are plenty of people that spend everyday with eachother for at least some portion of the day and spend the rest of their lives togther. Maybe you guys over did it by just simply never spending any time apart whatsoever.. cause that's just nuts, I find even a few hours a day is sufficient for me. Link to post Share on other sites
MarKus Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 I know its nuts....i told her this i said we should spend some time at our own houses once or twice a week....but she didnt buy it.....she didnt want to....thinking i didnt want to be with her, paranoid i would leave her, which was so daft i knew how much she loved me she put so much into our relationship, i did too... i had our best interests at heart....i just wanted it to be right.....but we still continued seeing eachother every day....cos she got to upset with what i said Its just strange this turnaround....were on a break cos she wants it....its weird we would spend all the weekends together which was nice...i would stay at her place thursday til sunday she would stay at mine monday til thursday.....though she went to work 9 til 5....i work part time i would see her first before she went to work.....and she would come to mine at 8 in the evening when i finished my second shift. How long u been with your gal? Link to post Share on other sites
AngelicDevl Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 Sorry to hear you're going thru hell. I actually have been with my bf 7months and we spend some time together every day and spend every night together. We arent together 24/7 because we both work and have other things to do, but we do spend at least a few hours with each other every day, usually in the later evenings. He gets up alot earlier for work than I do and also gets done at work earlier than I, so we each get our alone time as well. Obviously this wouldnt work for everyone, but it does work for us. We are in the process of buying a house together and are very happy. Wehave the issues that other couples have, but all in all, we have a strong relationship and like to do the same things, so it makes sense for us to be together alot. I am divorced and with my ex it was not like this at all. We didnt like to do anything together and had virtually nothing in common (something I was too stupid to see til it was too late). I think if I had to be around him as much as I'm around my bf, I would have gone completely insane by now You just have to be with the right person I'll bet. As for the situation with your gal, is she seeing someone else? In my experience, when a girl wants to take a break it's because she wants to see if dating someone else is better than dating who she was already with. I have lots of girlfriends that have pulled that crap. They dont want a break...they want to break up unless their new "fling" doesnt work out...then they'll come crawling back to you like nothing happened. Link to post Share on other sites
sallyhurts Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 we "see" each other 6/7 days a week. we hang out 4 of those 6 days, the other 2 we basically just talk between classes. we hang out just alone 2/7 days a week. Link to post Share on other sites
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