LC1976 Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 So a few of you know the back story, but I will give a brief recap for context: My ex and I broke up 5 years ago. She moved to another state to be with an ex BF that she said was "the love of her life". Through out the five years she has constantly been attempting to connect me: emails, txts, phone calls, and even showing up unannounced at my house a couple times. To which I have ignored. Our relationship ended because we were both in a bad places in our lives and turned away from each other and we both were depressed. So fast forward 5 years and she sent me a couple emails about a month ago. She sent a picture of our pet and a brief message asking how I was doing. Soon our conversation turned to her present relationship (the guy she left me for). Basically they have broken up a couple times and even tried to plan a wedding but their issues were too many and too big. Their issues are basically that he hasn't worked in 5 yrs, he doesn't want to work, he is negative, has some health issues that she pays for, he doesn't have a car and she drives him everywhere, plus he is very depressing. BUUUT she still loves him and hopes that if she kicks him out he will straighten up, so they can get married. So I guess my question is how do I cleave this parasite of a human away. Or even have her have much better thoughts of me then him? I know pointing out what a POS he is won't work and will just piss her off. I was going to tell her that these are the same things you complained about 11 yr ago when you two broke up the first time. But I don't think that would work either, since it comes of as attacking him. I need a strategy here people. Link to post Share on other sites
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