NicoleM Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 My ex and I have been broken up for a month or two ( actually lost count) anyways....... Do you ever wonder about them?? Are they happy?? Do they ever think about you??? I'm slowly getting over him but every once and awhile I think about him. I wonder what does his GF look like ( if he has one) or is he back with is ex?? Did he move? I know it's crazy to think about this when I am already going out on a date but I just can't help but think about him every now and then. I occasionally look at old texts and a photo of himself. Crazy isn't it?? Tell me I am not alone on this....... Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 Almost 2 years later, yes, I still wonder from time to time... Link to post Share on other sites
Sassygirl2 Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 I wonder all the same things.......I have had a weird feeling that my ex is dating someone. I think of him less and less with each passing day but it still hurts a lot. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NicoleM Posted June 19, 2011 Author Share Posted June 19, 2011 Glad I am not alone. I sometimes wish I could see his FB ( it's private) just to see what he is up to as crazy as that sounds. Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 My ex and I have been broken up for a month or two ( actually lost count) anyways....... Do you ever wonder about them?? Are they happy?? Do they ever think about you??? I'm slowly getting over him but every once and awhile I think about him. I wonder what does his GF look like ( if he has one) or is he back with is ex?? Did he move? I know it's crazy to think about this when I am already going out on a date but I just can't help but think about him every now and then. I occasionally look at old texts and a photo of himself. Crazy isn't it?? Tell me I am not alone on this....... Its perfectly natural to wonder about them, I still wonder about mine. The last 2 times Ive seen my ex.. she looks like **** and looks like she got hit by a train. She cheated on me twice in our relationship, first time physically 2nd time emotionally. She broke up with me bc i caught her and her coworker friend at a bar together. LOL shes 23 hes 37 But you know what, you have to get in to this mindset and repeat 3 times "IT DOES NOT MATTER" in your head everytime you think about your ex. I am the dumpee and my ex looks 39xs worse then I do now. You can tell she knows she made the worst mistake of her life and I have all the power as the dumpee because I told her I need time to myself to heal and better myself so she cant contact me Link to post Share on other sites
light_vader Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 Glad I am not alone. I sometimes wish I could see his FB ( it's private) just to see what he is up to as crazy as that sounds. Neeeh don't. It's just plain old masochism. Trust me. I could hack into ther FB account, her mail.. her all. To the extent she changed passwords and later in one of our last telephone calls (post breakup of course) she cried and told me "WHAT CAN I DO TO STOP YOU FROM SPYING ON ME!!!!" and I was like ... dummy... you can't hehehehe... But from this week on.. I haven't had the need to spy on her... something clicked and like I've said a couple times I think I'm on the way of getting over her for good now. For instance today, I felt like spying.. but what can I possibly gain from it? To have my old friend GPS let me know she's in a motel right now? BAH! I have a life in front of me.. and is mine, not hers. So why wasting my time... But keeping myself on topic, I think it's normal to think ONCE in a while about them... all your past loves... What's not it's to have 'em on your mind 24/7. We can't forget someone, no matter how hard the breakup was, or how lightly it happened. What we CAN is GET OVER that person and move on with our precious lives Link to post Share on other sites
Nita10 Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 7 months later and I still think about him everyday. He was on my mind every waking second! Thankfully I think about him a lot less now but still every day. It doesn't help that we've got mutual friends, live in the same city and are on the same course. I think you're actually doing quite well for someone who's one or two months post-breakup Link to post Share on other sites
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