shook187 Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 so i'm at the casino last night and i bump into my ex's best friend. she tells me in a emotional conversation my ex is missing me, and constantly crying over me. this is a far different picture to the one my ex painted me, acting so strong without me. she tells me my ex just wants us to find ourselves and that my ex had told her hopefully in a few months we're back together.. to make matters worse i'm dying to text her. but the thought of another rejection after 14 days NC is just dispicible. where do i go from here? i was fine until i saw this friend. Should i just keep NC and if she wants to contact me she can? i'm not sure if i'm getting my hopes up or not here but this is all a bit fresh. Link to post Share on other sites
kittycat95 Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 KEEP NCR. KEEP NCR. KEEP NCR. KEEP NCR. KEEP NCR. KEEP NCR. KEEP NCR. KEEP NCR. KEEP NCR. KEEP NCR. KEEP NCR. KEEP NCR. No one said it would be easy. But don't give in. A phone works two ways. Link to post Share on other sites
0hpenelope Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 so i'm at the casino last night and i bump into my ex's best friend. she tells me in a emotional conversation my ex is missing me, and constantly crying over me. this is a far different picture to the one my ex painted me, acting so strong without me. she tells me my ex just wants us to find ourselves and that my ex had told her hopefully in a few months we're back together.. to make matters worse i'm dying to text her. but the thought of another rejection after 14 days NC is just dispicible. where do i go from here? i was fine until i saw this friend. Should i just keep NC and if she wants to contact me she can? i'm not sure if i'm getting my hopes up or not here but this is all a bit fresh. This is her friend telling you, not your ex herself. If she needs the months, give her those months without you and heal. She can very well change her mind about things in those months, anyway. Feelings come and go and you should remember that. You took the fall when your ex decided to break up with you. And if she does call you months later, hopefully you will have used those months to clear your mind and heart from pain. So you can assess what you want from her: friend, reconcile, or stay gone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author shook187 Posted June 19, 2011 Author Share Posted June 19, 2011 yeah i've decided to keep NC, will repost here once a week and keep updated. Link to post Share on other sites
jacksonBrown Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 good choice my friend Link to post Share on other sites
Exit Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 Good choice indeed. Hopefully the information you got is right but it's not worth breaking NC for. Give her the space, give yourself the space, and good things will happen regardless. Link to post Share on other sites
Duckduckgoose Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 KEEP NC. If your ex is crying and crap about you so much why is she not contacting you? Eh? Link to post Share on other sites
Author shook187 Posted June 19, 2011 Author Share Posted June 19, 2011 i suppose she thinks it'll go away soon (the pain) Link to post Share on other sites
Author shook187 Posted June 20, 2011 Author Share Posted June 20, 2011 tick tock tick tock. time seems to be running out. but anyways, whys it so hard to wake up everymorning. sick of the dreams. Link to post Share on other sites
Author shook187 Posted June 24, 2011 Author Share Posted June 24, 2011 Update - i took a friend (girl) to the casino the other night for a few drinks, i was spotted by my ex's friend there. she inturn told my ex, and my ex texted me after 21 days NC, and said "heard you were at the casino last night, remember we live in a very small place, good to see your moving on!" as you get the urge i then replied hope your doing well, she then asked who the girl was and i didn't want to play it down and just go running back to her. so i played the game and she inturn told me she loved me still. weird, but until she rocks up at my door step i'm not reading into these games. Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 you failed... DONT BREAK NC EVER... its not worth it, you were winning when she texted you that Link to post Share on other sites
Author shook187 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 i'm still winning, she thinks im dating this girl.. Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 If you're ex is really upset, I'd say tough luck to her. Sje wanted the breakup didn't she? Link to post Share on other sites
0hpenelope Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Update - i took a friend (girl) to the casino the other night for a few drinks, i was spotted by my ex's friend there. she inturn told my ex, and my ex texted me after 21 days NC, and said "heard you were at the casino last night, remember we live in a very small place, good to see your moving on!" as you get the urge i then replied hope your doing well, she then asked who the girl was and i didn't want to play it down and just go running back to her. so i played the game and she inturn told me she loved me still. weird, but until she rocks up at my door step i'm not reading into these games. Why did she think saying that to you is a good idea? Why? Attention-seeking at its finest. Some people, honestly. Link to post Share on other sites
Author shook187 Posted June 27, 2011 Author Share Posted June 27, 2011 i don't know, but shes been texting me and i haven't been replying. theres a saying, "no use winning the first 9 rounds if you get knocked out in the 10th" Link to post Share on other sites
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