mim Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 I live with my ex girlfriend, we both decided to call it a day after 3-4 months of going out. 3 months later she gets a new man, but now the situation has become more confused as she says she still has feelings for me. Even though she doesn't want to get together again. For my part I went quiet and solemn on her during the relationship, but because we both live together I have been unbable to forget her, it seems as if I want her even more than I did before. To top it all off her bedroom is above mine, so I swear her and her new man have been fooling around (understandably as its a new relationship) When accused of this she becomes tearfull and upset, but I cannot help it as there are some things you are not meant to hear, and its a really good way to get back at her-even if I don't strictly mean it. She is still sort of seeing her new man but they do have problems and she says they way I make her feel blah de blah is all good and so on. She also says I should trust her that she would not do anything with her man whilst I am in the house. I do believe this, but my imagination gets the better of me at times I sort of feel that she is the one, but I not she is the one not ready for a long term relationship. She is a good judge of my character and knows me well, and says that in a few years time it would be interesting to meet and see if there is still something between us. As there is at the moment, and thats after a breakup and 5 months of living together afterwards. But she said don't wait for as she clearly won't. I am more keen on ker than she is of me at the moment. Despite all the bull we remain almost best friends and neither of us want to damage this friendship that has remained V.confused any advice however harsh would be nice. Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 Why on Earth are you living together? MOVE OUT. Link to post Share on other sites
morrigan Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 Clia is absolutely right. Find yourself new living arrangements as soon as you can. Your ex doesn't want to be involved with you anymore, and you're going to feel hurt each time she has a new boyfriend. Move out and move on with your life. Link to post Share on other sites
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