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I caught her kissing another guy but moment later she told me she loves me?

Rowleyrocker85

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Ok long story short, me and this girl are friends but its more than that tbh we have known each other for about a year and a half. She says were just friends because she has a boyfriend but she very happy to cheat on him with me. Anyway the other night we went out and cought her full on kissing another guy infront of me even tho she had just been doing the same to me and being all over me like a rash moments before, She tells me she knew I was there and she was sorry but her and that guy have 'history' I was furious and said im not taking this from her. She then proceded to wrap herself around my arm as we were sitting down and told me she well and truely loves me and has since we first met. Im not gonna lie i feel the same way too but is she using me? I cant keep living like this with her.

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Ok long story short, me and this girl are friends but its more than that tbh we have known each other for about a year and a half. She says were just friends because she has a boyfriend but she very happy to cheat on him with me. Anyway the other night we went out and cought her full on kissing another guy infront of me even tho she had just been doing the same to me and being all over me like a rash moments before, She tells me she knew I was there and she was sorry but her and that guy have 'history' I was furious and said im not taking this from her. She then proceded to wrap herself around my arm as we were sitting down and told me she well and truely loves me and has since we first met. Im not gonna lie i feel the same way too but is she using me? I cant keep living like this with her.

 

This post is wrong on so many levels.

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Rowleyrocker85

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This post is wrong on so many levels.

 

Could you elabarate more please? This aint the answer im looking for tbh. I need a straight up answer so I can finally put this bull**** to bed.

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Could you elabarate more please? This aint the answer im looking for tbh. I need a straight up answer so I can finally put this bull**** to bed.

 

Ok long story short, me and this girl are friends but its more than that tbh we have known each other for about a year and a half. She says were just friends because she has a boyfriend but she very happy to cheat on him with me. Anyway the other night we went out and cought her full on kissing another guy infront of me even tho she had just been doing the same to me and being all over me like a rash moments before, She tells me she knew I was there and she was sorry but her and that guy have 'history' I was furious and said im not taking this from her. She then proceded to wrap herself around my arm as we were sitting down and told me she well and truely loves me and has since we first met. Im not gonna lie i feel the same way too but is she using me? I cant keep living like this with her.

 

She says you're just friends but tells you she loves you. She has a boyfriend but in your words is 'very happy to cheat on him with me'. She also kisses another guy in front of you after being all over you just before? And you're wondering if she's using you?

 

How old are you?

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Im 25, yeah i know exactly what you mean. Its alot more complicated that what ive said here tho but ur right. Shes blatantly using me.

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Im 25, yeah i know exactly what you mean. Its alot more complicated that what ive said here tho but ur right. Shes blatantly using me.

 

I'm sorry bro but it's so obvious even I can tell and I'm no expert.

 

You need to get rid of her. Also, you know you're being intimate with a woman in a relationship? That's disgraceful.

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Wait, so:

 

1)She has a boyfriend...

2)...on whom she cheats with you...

3)...and then she makes out with YET another guy in front of you?

 

No offence, but this is the girl I would actually call a slut - given that she has a bf and still acts like that.

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She uses you because you allow her to use you. She engages in humiliating behavior right in front of you. She has no respect for you whatsoever. If you do not respect yourself then who will? You would have to be an idiot to continue this. Move on and find someone else who can respect you. She sounds very immature and trashy.

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Cut your ties with her. She's a serial cheater and has probably played a lot of other men. Sorry for your pain. She won't change.

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This can't be a serious thread. She's such a serial cheater I can't even determine who she's cheating on. I guess all of them except for the lucky guy at the party who got to suck her toungue w/ no baggage.

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Where's the "facepalm" emoticon when u need it?

 

Dude, she has no respect for you whatsoever. "I knew you were there but I HAD to make out with him - we have history!!". :rolleyes::laugh:

 

On the off chance that this is serious and you actually need to be told that this girl is trash: This girl is trash.. Run now.

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It's actually very simple.

 

If she'll cheat WITH you, she'll cheat ON you.

 

If you want to stand a better chance of avoiding getting treated like that in the future, I suggest you (a) get her out of your life, and (b) stop getting involved with women who have boyfriends/husbands.

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I'm a girl....SO I KNOW she's using you. Its most likely an insecurity of hers that has made her a "slut". Nevertheless you deserve better. She's just not a stable relationsjip and most likely will never be! There's others for you just be patient :) and MOVE ON from her!!

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Maybe we need some background here to help you?

 

It's hard to gauge a situation with this without a little more info to give you advice on.

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Maybe we need some background here to help you?

 

It's hard to gauge a situation with this without a little more info to give you advice on.

 

 

Surely you jest?

 

This situation is very easy to gauge. Whether OP did something to influence his gfs behavior is a different story altogether (as it'd have to be pretty f*kd to make a difference).

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Rowleyrocker85

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Yeah your right, if you can find my other post about this then there is alot more detail to it. I just wrote this one quickly because I thought the other one didnt load up here. But if you can find it youre welcome to comment on it.

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Yeah your right, if you can find my other post about this then there is alot more detail to it.

 

No there's not. It's the same story with a little more detail about where and when all of this kissing took place.

 

She gets around.

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