OldOnTheInside Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 Not expecting any sympathy at all. Only verification I'm not going crazy or "reading to much into it"! Good. In that case, no, you are not going crazy or reading too much into it. If it looks like a dog, walks like a dog, barks like a dog...what do you think it's going to be? Link to post Share on other sites
Author baffled75 Posted June 24, 2011 Author Share Posted June 24, 2011 Thank you everyone for your thoughts and opinions, it has been very thearuputic. There's nothing like being slapped in the back of the head by complete strangers to boost your confidence. And I mean that in a good way. What do you do when you start thinking about not being with him anymore and it hurts? I already know that the 3 buck chuck from Trader Joes isn't the answer. Link to post Share on other sites
scarlett27 Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 karmas a bitch baby , hes a toad so are u , he want a threesome he sounds disgusting , stay togehter u are well matched Link to post Share on other sites
OldOnTheInside Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 What do you do when you start thinking about not being with him anymore and it hurts? What is your usual method for dealing with breakups? Although in this case, the feelings will perhaps be far more intense. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 Thank you everyone for your thoughts and opinions, it has been very thearuputic. There's nothing like being slapped in the back of the head by complete strangers to boost your confidence. And I mean that in a good way. What do you do when you start thinking about not being with him anymore and it hurts? I already know that the 3 buck chuck from Trader Joes isn't the answer. Start by making a list of everything you dislike about him...and then a list of all the things you would like in a man and think about how when you leave him alone, you can work on yourself and make room in your life for someone MUCH better! "Un-attaching" is a painful but also freeing process. It hurts like B for a minute, but it gives you a chance to start over and do better and works out to be empowering if you truly take that time to work on yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Author baffled75 Posted June 24, 2011 Author Share Posted June 24, 2011 Good. In that case, no, you are not going crazy or reading too much into it. If it looks like a dog, walks like a dog, barks like a dog...what do you think it's going to be? A dog of course. LMAO because, and he gets an A+ for this, there are times when that dog is actually a big fat cat with a meow that sounds like a bark. Your comment just reminds me of one of my favorite songs: That's All by Phil Collins. Link to post Share on other sites
fooled once Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Baffled, I hope for your sake that you really are done. He can't reel you back in unless you allow it. He can't be in your life anymore unless you allow it. You do have a choice here and I hope you have seen what a toxic man he is. He isn't worthy of you. Not even close. Stay strong, stay away from him and please do not contact his wife. She has rid her life of him and his drama, do not invite her into your drama with him. She did her part, she kicked his butt to the curb. Let her be to get on with her life. And you get on with yours without him. If a friend of yours was in your shoes, what would you advise her? If you had a daughter in your situation, what would you advise her? Good luck to you. Link to post Share on other sites
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