nlpman Posted June 21, 2011 Share Posted June 21, 2011 Would like a couple of opinions on what just happened about an hour ago. I hadnt contacted my EX GF for 5 weeks, when we split up I emailed her and let her know that I wouldnt be contacting her and she has not contacted me. Today I get a text saying she will be at my house in 10 mins to see if any post has arrived. 10 minutes later she arrives, we have a cup of tea, light hearted chat about nothing serious, she tells me that just because she has been going around saying to people that she is OK doesnt actually mean she has been ok ? she checks her mail, half an hour later she leaves. We seemed to get on well ! I was extremely surprised that she turned up out of the blue like that, there would have been a hundred different ways she could have got her mail without arriving at my place. Wondering what anyone thinks about it all ?? I really didnt expect to see her, and wasnt going to call her for another couple of months, now Im feeling a bit shaky and Im not sure what to think about the purpose of her visit! All opinions are welcome Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
OhMittens Posted June 21, 2011 Share Posted June 21, 2011 She is holding you on the ropes and checking on you. Your response should have been somewhere along the lines of "I hope you feel better, I know I have been feeling much better myself". Link to post Share on other sites
iceweasel6 Posted June 21, 2011 Share Posted June 21, 2011 light hearted chat about nothing serious, she tells me that just because she has been going around saying to people that she is OK doesnt actually mean she has been ok ? Read between the lines and take it all for what its worth. You had a light hearted chat about nothing serious. She said that she may not be ok - that's normal. Don't read into anything at all. there would have been a hundred different ways she could have got her mail without arriving at my place. It's obvious she stopped by to see how your coping. Nothing more. She satisfied her curiosity. When someone really wants something - they say it. They say hey, I've been thinking about you, us, and I really miss you. They put themselves out there. Anything less than that, coupled with true introspection - eg: why would this time around be any different, is a waste of time. Leave her alone, and in fact, let her know that next time you will post her mail. Link to post Share on other sites
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