why would a guy claim to be so "nice"?

[oaks]

Guys say they are nice because girls say they are looking for someone nice.

[tigressA]

Yes Im avoiding him totally! I threw away the biz card & I have go back in to macys this evening w/ my mom because she wants to see if something she saw the other day is still on sale uggghhh!

 

Just stick with your mom as I doubt he would approach you then, or go into a different store (I assume this Macy's is in a mall). Or you could just stay in the car, or stay home. There are ways you can avoid having to interact with this guy if that's what you want to do.

[grkBoy]

I think it's one thing to be nice to women. If a man gets rejected for respecting a female then it speaks loudly on how the female isn't right for him. How she'll end up being the one at age 33 complaining endlessly on how there's no "nice guys" or "decent guys" out there.

 

However, as "nice" as I'd be to women, I'd never try to use that as a selling point. Stating you're a nice guy and women reject you for it is something you tell FRIENDS when they ask you why you're not dating anyone...not a potential girl you're pursuing.

 

I agree with the others. If you think he's cute, call him, chat, maybe go out a few times. If not, then move on.

[Shaun-Dro]

I think it's one thing to be nice to women. If a man gets rejected for respecting a female then it speaks loudly on how the female isn't right for him. How she'll end up being the one at age 33 complaining endlessly on how there's no "nice guys" or "decent guys" out there.

 

However, as "nice" as I'd be to women, I'd never try to use that as a selling point. Stating you're a nice guy and women reject you for it is something you tell FRIENDS when they ask you why you're not dating anyone...not a potential girl you're pursuing.

 

I agree with the others. If you think he's cute, call him, chat, maybe go out a few times. If not, then move on.

 

Looks to me like the OP has already made up her mind on this one. I think the guy, probably somewhere in his 20s, didn't know what to say and that "nice guy" comment just blurted off his tongue. I bet he wishes he could take it back now.