Smalls Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 Where do I start? I am 14 weeks pregnant. Im 22 and hes 23. Weve only been dating 7 months. I love him to death and hes awesome but I am having such a hard time dealing. He can sit there and drink, hes not gaining any weight, i feel like crap, dont fit in any clothes, look terrible. Hes not even considerate and sympathetic when it comes to me. How the hell do I handle this? Ill come home asking for a massage caus eim in pain and hell say "only if you give me one". He wakes up in the morning and rushes to the bathroom knowing im prego and have to go and he tells me to wait. Saturday we went to his friends house (didnt eat all day) and he sat there til 11 at night with me starving so he could drink! I cant handle this! IM going nuts. What do I do? Help me! Please! Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 Umm! Sounds like a terrible situation. What have you tried to do to make him be considerate? Would you be able to support yourself if you broke up? Does he want this baby? The night he was drinking, why didn't you just say I'm Hungry - and leave on your own? Are you fully dependent on him? -yes Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 http://www.fathersworld.com/fatherhood/article.cfm?template=mansguide&article_id=713 http://www.fathersworld.com/features.html Try this site. Its for fathers and has some good information that may benefit you both. There is information for pregnancy and child-rearing. Print out some of the info and direct him to the site if you think it will be useful. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Smalls Posted April 19, 2004 Author Share Posted April 19, 2004 im not fully dependant on him but we had his truck (stick) and i dont know how to drive it. Plus he said we were only going to say hi! i did tell him i was hungry but got nothing back. i dont know what i can do to make him consdierate. yes he wants this child. i know a lot of it has to do with him being mommas lil boy and only child so hes spoiled to hell! i can make it on my own but i want to make it work. Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 Hm - I think you simply have to stand up for yourself more. Make sure he realizes that if he doesn't treat you well, you WILL leave him. You could've simply said to his friend: "I'm sorry to tear him away from you but i haven't eaten all day, and it's not a good idea for a pregnant gal". This is you and your child's health! good luck, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Author Smalls Posted April 19, 2004 Author Share Posted April 19, 2004 Well im just upset cause im going nuts. i cant even believe that any mail would rather drink thatn have his prego gf eat. its unreal. i had to go home at 11 at night and eat a bowl of cereal! is this normal! Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 No, it's not normal at all. So, you have two options: train your bf to behave or leave him. Whatever you do, plz take good care of your health. No no eating all day! -yes Link to post Share on other sites
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