Lizzie60 Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 As some of you know, I had a telephone conversation with my young MM's wife. Anyway... last week, he called, from HOME, with her next to him... Weird conversation, I asked him if she was close to him.. he said yes, she is right here.. then I asked him why HE was calling.. THEY WANTED TO INVITE ME TO THEIR PLACE... for a 3-some.. of course, I said no.. I'm not bi... and I told him I was too old for this kind of stuff. He called me twice since from a payphone (I know it's him, he always call from a payphone.. I am not sure what to think anymore.. maybe she knows he will never stop his cheating.. she might as well has the OW close to her.. From our conversation, she seemed very insecure and very sensitive.. I don't know. Strange.. Link to post Share on other sites
donnamaybe Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 That poor woman. What a POS he must be to not give a damn about her feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 Like most men out there but then no women ever know when they're sleeping with a POS Link to post Share on other sites
donnamaybe Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 but then no women ever know when they're sleeping with a POS Well, you and I both know that's not true, now is it? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 Well, you and I both know that's not true, now is it? oops I should have specified.. no 'married woman' ... my bad. That is from what YOU said.. I think differently. Link to post Share on other sites
donnamaybe Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Yep. SOME women sleep with a POS quite willingly. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 wow... what power she has handed him... that he can convince her to share him with others in order to "keep him." it's completely delusional - at best. he's given evidence that he's never going to be faithful... never going to stop doing whatever he wants to do... and now he has her willing to go along with it so that he stays... what an entitled man. and now he's probably going with the notion of being honest with her. i'm left wondering if he ever thinks of her best interest. left wondering why the heck she would stay at all? some women will short change themselves every time - in order not to "lose" the man they love... when they never really have them to begin with - and knowing full well they aren't really invested in the R either. to go along with that delusion makes me very sad for his W. she has handed him WAY too much power. Link to post Share on other sites
phillyfan Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Liz dude WTF? The guy is scum why wud u even talk 2 him? If u thnk all men are a POS then u r not 2 good at choosin the rite man as threr r plenty of us who treat their woman like a Godamm queen. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 I think 2sunny nailed it.. she will do anything to keep him... they have 2 very young kids ..so maybe that's why she puts up with so much... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 Liz dude WTF? The guy is scum why wud u even talk 2 him? If u thnk all men are a POS then u r not 2 good at choosin the rite man as threr r plenty of us who treat their woman like a Godamm queen. hey philly dude... I have dumped this guy quite some time ago.. I should have written my ex-young MM.. my bad.. sorry it's been a while since I've posted.. don,t have much time anymore Link to post Share on other sites
jj33 Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Ah Lizzie. You are anything but a cliche but isnt that straight out of Sex & The City? Samantha runs into her lover and his wife on the street, he tells his wife, then he wants to leave and the W calls and says I will be more adventurous if thats what it will take to save our marriage, and invites her to do a threesome? Oh my. Oh my my. Who knows maybe his W is bi and this is the chance she has been waiting for? Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 when he called from the payphone... what did his message reveal? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 Ah Lizzie. You are anything but a cliche but isnt that straight out of Sex & The City? Samantha runs into her lover and his wife on the street, he tells his wife, then he wants to leave and the W calls and says I will be more adventurous if thats what it will take to save our marriage, and invites her to do a threesome? Oh my. Oh my my. Who knows maybe his W is bi and this is the chance she has been waiting for? I know she had sexual experiences with younger women before (a few times).. he told me.. maybe you're right.. excellent opportunity for her.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 when he called from the payphone... what did his message reveal? he didn't leave a message.. I know it's him though because one call was from a store he used to call me from.. and I know by the area code. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 They still have pay phones? Who knew! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Welcome back, even if for a short time..Glad life is going well with you! She really must love him, or feel she can't live without him.. A woman who will have a 3-some with her husband and his exOW to keep her H happy just shows she is desparate. I hope one day she realizes she deserves better.. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Welcome back, even if for a short time..Glad life is going well with you! She really must love him, or feel she can't live without him.. A woman who will have a 3-some with her husband and his exOW to keep her H happy just shows she is desparate. I hope one day she realizes she deserves better.. She is pretty desparate. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 As some of you know, I had a telephone conversation with my young MM's wife. Anyway... last week, he called, from HOME, with her next to him... Weird conversation, I asked him if she was close to him.. he said yes, she is right here.. then I asked him why HE was calling.. THEY WANTED TO INVITE ME TO THEIR PLACE... for a 3-some.. of course, I said no.. I'm not bi... and I told him I was too old for this kind of stuff. He called me twice since from a payphone (I know it's him, he always call from a payphone.. I am not sure what to think anymore.. maybe she knows he will never stop his cheating.. she might as well has the OW close to her.. From our conversation, she seemed very insecure and very sensitive.. I don't know. Strange.. So in all this....where do you and your feelings stand? I know a lot more about what his wife thinks and feels and about his ways than your own. I'm slightly confused about what's going on, you seem annoyed and amused by this man and the whole situation but not really interested....but still involved. What's up? Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 So in all this....where do you and your feelings stand? I know a lot more about what his wife thinks and feels and about his ways than your own. I'm slightly confused about what's going on, you seem annoyed and amused by this man and the whole situation but not really interested....but still involved. What's up? if you read some history - you will understand Lizzie's experience in this area. she's not necessarily a gal that carries the usual mindset that most OW do... Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 THEY WANTED TO INVITE ME TO THEIR PLACE... for a 3-some.. You're wise not to do it. Someone as insecure as she is would be terrible in a menage a trois, and even if all she did was film, she'd no doubt be so worked up the video would be spoiled by camera shake... Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 after some thought... it's odd... because he obviously told his wife about you - so it is out on the table... yet this: he still called you from a pay phone? so - it may not be the sex he wants or desires... but mainly wants to keep secrets from his W? if he knew she knew - then why the need to still use a pay phone when he COULD have easily called you from his house, work or cell phone? Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 She is pretty desparate. So is he..... Link to post Share on other sites
donnamaybe Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 So is he..... Word, RB! Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 [/b] if you read some history - you will understand Lizzie's experience in this area. she's not necessarily a gal that carries the usual mindset that most OW do... I see... Well I don't know where to find the history so I am still confused as to what is her mindset...buttt yea... Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 I see... Well I don't know where to find the history so I am still confused as to what is her mindset...buttt yea... First, go to Lizzie's profile, then click on 'statistics', then 'find all threads started by Lizzie60' Happy reading. Link to post Share on other sites
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