How come no girls have ever shown me any interested?

[Simon Ohlund]

Hello

Im a 21 year old guy and ever since i was 15 years old i have always wondered why i have never got any girlfriend nor female friend. I have even tried talking to many of them but always when i do they walk away or they just answer plain and simple like they are bored. I know most women out there are shallow and only go for the looks when they first get interested in a guy. So i want to know is their anything wrong with my appearance? Am i really naturally ugly? Please let me know because i just recently cut my hair short and i have started to go to the gym. But no success yet. So is there anything wrong with my face?

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[SmileFace]

Yes, your face is all blurry and dim lighted. lol I am kidding. Are you in school, work? - Make friends there. What have you been doing in the gym?

 

Oh yeah, nothing is wrong with your face. It is all in your head you may want to change "all women are shallow". Because if that is what you believe. Guess what?

[LuckyLady13]

Simon, first of all, Exodus rules.

 

Secondly, if I ever found myself talking to a guy and he said anything resembling this:

I know most women out there are shallow

 

I'd always do this:

walk away or they just answer plain and simple like they are bored

 

The only time I'd act bored in that situation is if I'm in a public place and I'd be scanning the people around me to find someone else to talk to. If there's no one else around, I wouldn't hesitate to walk away.

[tb24]

It's more than likely you're like me and struggle to tell when a woman is interested. Save for the few occasions when girls have come up to me and told me I'm "gorgeous", I find it hard to tell if a girl is interested at all. Especially in a non-verbal setting (e.g. sitting across a bar with a girl who's looking at me occasionally). Unfortunately, as guys we're also expected to make the first move.

[Ross MwcFan]

Absolutley nothing wrong with your looks. Most people who look less attractive than you manage to get girlfriends.

 

I guess either you aren't noticing the signals, or you're shy/unconfident, or not that happy a lot of the time, and therefore don't seem that approchable.