sveltskye Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Got dumped by a boyfriend of 3 1/2 months about a month and a half ago. You think I'd be over it by now but I still think about him all the freaking time. I am not a melodramatic person and I don't believe in "the one" but my god do I miss him all the freaking time. We had a really, really amicable break up, but we've been pretty good about no contact. I just don't feel like dating anyone else and I'm worried that's gonna continue for a while. Its not that I don't believe that I *could* be happy with someone else, its just that I feel like I don't want anyone else and I wonder how long I'm gonna feel that way. The break up was really sudden and then he turned around and texted me the next day before taking about a week to finally decide to break it off. I don't want to be chasing anyone, but my god do I miss talking to him. We used to talk every day. I'm just wondering when this is gonna get easier... and if he'll ever contact me again. Probably not but its hard not to have wishful thinking... we had the most amicable break up ever really. Link to post Share on other sites
Trovador Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 If you had fought it could have been worse, believe me... congrats on keeping NC on your side, because it could have been the worst... What you are feeling is only natural, so stop worrying about it, just let those emotions flow and think that he probably did you a big favor... But all that thinking of him has a lot to do with the few time you two were an item, because, they say, familiarity breeds contempt... you didn't have a chance to really know him with all his warts and hairs... My advice is that you should stop seeing life pass by and instead grab it and enjoy it, don't let a man ruin your happiness, even if it is for just a few weeks! Link to post Share on other sites
Author sveltskye Posted June 23, 2011 Author Share Posted June 23, 2011 Thank you for the kind reply, Trovador. I was feeling a bit depressed and self indulgent yesterday. I do think I knew him pretty well though, despite the short length of dating, because I basically spent half the week with him for almost the entire length of dating and we talked every day on the days we weren't together. So I think I miss his companionship too... but yea I'm proud of myself for being restrained and stuff when it comes to contacting Link to post Share on other sites
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