MikeJLynch's_Girl Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 So no girlfriend likes the ex girlfriend right? just as no ex likes the next... but this is beyond a joke theyve been apart for 5 months and we've been together for a month... when we were talking (3months) he never once mentioned her and when she inboxed me on facebook telling me to back off and I asked him he said she was a crazy ex... little did I know how true that was.. Ive met her once and it was SO SO SO awkward and I have to see her again in two days time him and her dont talk at all unless hes having a talk to her about how she talks to me when she wants to start ****... the other night I was trying to make it so I didnt have to see her by telling her to text or inbox someone at the house we're staying at that she was on her way so me and my bf could leave, its my bfs "lil brothers" bday so of course he doesnt want t miss out so I was going to go away for a little while so she could say happy birthday coz shes known him for ages.. but insisted on insulting me and so i spoke to Mattys sister and said I would behave but not leave she said it was cool Im just wondering if theres a way I can make her see that Mikes happy with me... she said to me last night that she was gonna proove he was still in love with her.. last time she threatened that was before Mike and I started dating and he ended up getting mega drunk and sleeping with her. No I dont think he'd cheat but I just want some hints on how to deal with her... any ideas? Link to post Share on other sites
LuciaLove Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 this way of writing without any punctuation is very difficult to understand what is really going on it sounds like you have a boyfriend named mike and he has an ex girlfriend that is still very much a part of his life and mikes familys life and you are kind of the new comer but she keeps showing up and mike is not keeping her away from you have you talked to your boyfriend and told him how you feel and that if hecared about you or your feelings he would distance himself from people he was in relationships before especially that close to your relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 You've only been dating a month. Tell him you're not prepared to put up with his crazy ex hanging around, so he either expunges her from his life, or you aren't interested in pursuing a relationship with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MikeJLynch's_Girl Posted July 3, 2011 Author Share Posted July 3, 2011 this way of writing without any punctuation is very difficult to understand what is really going on it sounds like you have a boyfriend named mike and he has an ex girlfriend that is still very much a part of his life and mikes familys life and you are kind of the new comer but she keeps showing up and mike is not keeping her away from you have you talked to your boyfriend and told him how you feel and that if hecared about you or your feelings he would distance himself from people he was in relationships before especially that close to your relationship? yea sorry about the no punctuation, I was rushing and stressed, I had two run ins with her this week and I'm stll wondering how I stop myself from hitting her. Especially when she tells me that: "compared to how I feel about Mike, what you feel for him is nothing...." Link to post Share on other sites
distinct wonder Posted July 4, 2011 Share Posted July 4, 2011 Yes it was very hard to read... but my first thoughts was that she is not an ex, she is telling you to back off because he is either still with her or he is giving her the impression or idea that she still has a chance. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MikeJLynch's_Girl Posted July 4, 2011 Author Share Posted July 4, 2011 Yes it was very hard to read... but my first thoughts was that she is not an ex, she is telling you to back off because he is either still with her or he is giving her the impression or idea that she still has a chance. I cant see how he's giving her the impression or idea when he and I live together and he doesn't talk to her and has told her numerour times that he's not interested... Link to post Share on other sites
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