RandomGirl27 Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 Recently i reconnected with a guy, who i had a brief relationship with a few years ago. But he moved to America from the UK and wanted to concentrated on that, so an LDR was out of the question. He seemed really pleased to hear from me, he said it made his week, and that i was the one that got away. We chatted for ages, and we both realised that all the old feelings were still there, if any thing he was more enthusiastic than me. We always had a connection, i even thought he was THE one, but i understood that he wanted to moved to America and pursue his dreams. We both decided that we were going to try the LDR, and he was going to come back to the UK in August to see me, i was over the moon, so was he i thought. Things were amazing for a while we would communicate most days, we both have Blackberrys so getting online wasn't an issue as we could use Blackberry Messenger, then suddenly i got deleted, i didn't see any signs, he wasn't ignoring me or being off before that. He came on Skype later and told me his phone had broken, which is possible, i didn't have doubts about it. But during our chat he did seem off, we chatted for about 20/30 mins, then he went offline, then i noticed he'd deleted me from there as well. So i'm assuming rightly or wrong that he had changed his mind. And was cutting me off completely. Here's where i need some advice, i'd like to email him, just to get a few things off my chest, not a nasty email, more the things i didn't get a chance to tell him, even if its just for closure for me. I've got a thousand thoughts running around about what happened and the fact he could not of even told me "thanks, but i just can't do it" or what his true intentions were. I don't like to think the worst of him, as that would be too easy. I'm just not sure if contacting him again with an email, when he cut the lines of communication would go down well with him. Link to post Share on other sites
scarlett27 Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 I can understand why you would want closure as frankly is behaviour is not very impressive or manly - man up and just say he don't want to be with you - send the email this man sounds like a player big time and also i reckon he has commitment issues , u will find SOMEONE WORTHY OF U X Link to post Share on other sites
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