buranko Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 To start off. here's a story of break-up http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t278093/ and here's an update of us 1 and a half month since http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t283093/ just to summarize, me and my ex are currently having a close proximate working relationship. thing is, this weekend, we are both on duties and will have to spend the weekend together with no 1 else in office. just last friday, i did tell her not to string me along further. after NC for a week, this morning, she sent me such an msg. "i got stories to tell you from my vacation (she just went to a vacation). you prepare to download some movies which we can watch together. i'll make you your fave sandwich for breakfast, but only as a friend. dun think too much." well, the sandwich thing only occured in the beginning of our relationship, it has almost been 4 months since she last made sandwich for me. so i'm not sure why she suddenly thought of the sandwich. but then again, she maintains that its only as a friend. i've not responded. should i tell her its ok, but i would rather not. or just go along and act as if i'm totally cool about it. knowing that, i would like to take a chance and see if i can work things out with her again. Link to post Share on other sites
coolheadal Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 (edited) Don't answer her! Why would you want to watch video of her on her vacation without you in there. Think man with our mind and not your heart! Also a sandwich can't bring what you had. Just the friend part is so negative to say to you. It's like they still need you in their lives but only as a friend. My wife told me the same a few weeks ago and it's been a nightmare ever since. Edited June 24, 2011 by coolheadal Link to post Share on other sites
Author buranko Posted June 24, 2011 Author Share Posted June 24, 2011 i replied. i said, thanks for your kind thoughts. but i'm no longer your bf, and as a friend, u probably should respect me more. instead of letting me know that you're going to tell me stories from your vacation, ask me if i would like to know about your life. instead of making me sandwiches, ask me if i would like a sandwich since you're making some. Do not continue to act like you own me. instead of telling me to go download some movies to watch together, ask me if i would like to watch a movie with you. maybe i just dont care anymore. oh well. Link to post Share on other sites
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