jusified Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 Hi guys, Your input would be much appreciated on my current situation with a crush at work. So we work on different levels but first time I met this girl and saw her eyes I had a stop moment. After seeing her around the workplace I find her to be a tough and determined girl and I really like that about her. We went on a quick lunch a few month ago to just get to know each other, definitely not a date. I then asked her out to get coffee with me a few times but she was genuinely really busy so we had a non event. Then she seemed tense and stressed one day so I decided to send a nice photo of a beach and told her to relax and everything will be fine. She emailed me and said it was lovely and made her smile. I then left two small chocolates on her desk to which she replied thanks and you are the sweetest man ever, lets do lunch as soon as possible. Recently she came across to my desk and asked how i was and for some strange reason I was looking into her eyes and at that moment decided to touch her forehead/bang (I know right!!). But she seemed to respond well and didn't back away. At work we mostly seem to ignore each other and not make eye contact (I usually initiate eye contact) when other people are around but then when we do have that rare alone moment I feel something special. (But she is a lovely friendly gal so it may just be how she is). I feel that there are positive signals from her but just not clear enough for me to determine as 100% show of her feeling. I plan on asking her out for dinner, one of my best friends (girl) believes that this girl may not be 100% sure I am interested and even if she did she may still be just friendly. she doesn't seem to be the type to lead people on but is a confident and friendly person. What you all think? I am going to ask her to dinner just the two of us anyway even if I am a fool Thanks, Link to post Share on other sites
crazyd Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 While I'm in the camp that's against dating coworkers, I say go for it. If she says yes to your offer, you can get an idea if there is something there, or if she's just being friendly. If she says no, then you know where things stand. If the answer is no, leave it as is, and don't try to persue her further. Link to post Share on other sites
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