djacob1998 Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 I was the TOW as of a week ago. Sent an email saying " can't do this anymore. This is just too painful for me. You and I know this is best for everyone. Thank you for everything. You are truly a special person!! No hard feelings Me" This wasn't over a fight. I just had my fill I guess. It is the same old sorry story. My survival instincts have finally kicked in. Thank God! We were together for almost three years. Every Sunday and Tuesday night like clockwork. I would see him at 9 PM at my house. I have been reading so many familiar things on this site. I need help to stay strong when I do hear from him. Although I feel strong now.... I will write on here...whenever I obsess Link to post Share on other sites
Loni Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 I hope you did this sober. Link to post Share on other sites
rugbyplayer1990 Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 (edited) Thank you for the post, I too am going through the same thing.. Except this was my ex girlfriend, she started dating someone else. She and I began to see each other again (while she with OM) then she broke it off with him and ran to me and i was open arms. Fast forward 6 weeks and now she is leading me on, going out with "friends" and just driving me nuts wondering who she is with. Tonight I decided I had enough!! However, unlike you, I haven't had the courage to send an email or text saying "im done". I'm sure I want out but i'm scared, i'm sure she will meet someone else asap and that will hurt as it did 2 years ago when we first split. So, I'm going to take insipration from you and just send the message and stand firm on my decision!! I feel weak but It has to be done, I would rather be single and lonely than with her and miserable!! Keep my posted.. Edited June 25, 2011 by rugbyplayer1990 Link to post Share on other sites
Emme Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 I was the TOW as of a week ago. Sent an email saying " can't do this anymore. This is just too painful for me. You and I know this is best for everyone. Thank you for everything. You are truly a special person!! No hard feelings Me" This wasn't over a fight. I just had my fill I guess. It is the same old sorry story. My survival instincts have finally kicked in. Thank God! We were together for almost three years. Every Sunday and Tuesday night like clockwork. I would see him at 9 PM at my house. I have been reading so many familiar things on this site. I need help to stay strong when I do hear from him. Although I feel strong now.... I will write on here...whenever I obsess Good for you... Make sure over the next few days you stay busy. If you feel like you gonna fall of wagon post and we'll catch yah. I haven't had the courage to send an email or text saying "im done". I'm sure I want out but i'm scared, i'm sure she will meet someone else asap and that will hurt as it did 2 years ago when we first split. So, I'm going to take insipration from you and just send the message and stand firm on my decision!! I feel weak but It has to be done, I would rather be single and lonely than with her and miserable!! Keep my posted.. I hope you did it. A name with Rugby in it I have a feeling you'll bounce right back. Nothing to fear. Link to post Share on other sites
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