somedude81 Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 That's very different from what you said earlier. I've never had a woman try to make me jump through hoops. It just doesn't seem realistic that a woman would even bother with giving a guy challenges and tests. If a girl doesn't like somebody, she'll just reject him or ignore him. She may let him become her friend. But even there will be no hoop jumping. Link to post Share on other sites
rafallus Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 Unfortunately, it doesn't always work like that. Often girls, while not interested in becoming intimate with a guy, keep him around for attention and validation. In other words, they enjoy having a guy at their beck and call who will go through any **** for her, clinging to hope that one day she will sleep with him for all he did to her. But again, it doesn't work like that, and all he ends up doing is stroking her ego. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 Eh, only a fool will be at a woman's beck and call and go through crap for her. I know that doing stuff like that for a girl won't make her like me. Though I do have a short history of being used by girls. I've long since grown out of that; still hasn't made dating any easier. The struggle is having to continually have to reach out to somebody because they won't do it themselves. So far I've these past couple months, I've had two really fun "dates" with a girl I'm crazy about. I know that if I didn't invite her, or maintain contact I simply wouldn't have seen her this summer. When it comes to women, I need to do 95% of the work. If I didn't, I'd just be by myself. That is the struggle. Link to post Share on other sites
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