RN2011 Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 Here is my original thread and story. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t282827/ Update....I broke NC and we talked. We ended up meeting up two nights ago and I was able to tell him how I felt about the relationship. He continues to tell me that he is still in love with me, loves me, and that he isn't sure what the future holds, but right now we need to go our seperate ways for now and take some time. Every time we say goodbye, we both end it with "goodbye for now." I love him so much and want him back. Need advice.... I realize that the majority of people on this site are the dumpees, but can the dumpers put their two cents in?!! What does NC mean to the dumper? What are they thinking? Link to post Share on other sites
GreenPolicy Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 "Dumpers" are not a monolithic category. Some dumpers never look back or regret breaking up with their dumpees, some do. Most dumpers never make an attempt to get back together, but a few do. It's all speculation as to what your dumper thinks and feels, energy that is better put into healing. Link to post Share on other sites
BlindRage Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 NC to dumpers mean.. they won't be disturbed anymore by the dumpees and can start having fun. But it does help the dumpees find themselves and its the best therapy possible. Once you are dumped. FACE IT, YOU'RE DUMPED. Leave it at that, pack your stuff, get the heck away from that train wreck as possible. Don't stay in contact (why would you want to even talk to someone that left you????? -thats what I learned-) Link to post Share on other sites
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