kittycat95 Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 Saturday night I said really angry, mean things to him and since then he's stopped speaking to me. This is from an email he sent today: **** you. I already told u what I think. We are over. I don't ever want to interact with you. Way too little, way too late. You dont know how to support. I told you you're only making yourself get upset. I am beyond over you. I will ignore you for the rest of my life. So stop wasting your time. I sent more emails saying how sorry I was, trying to make him see that things haven't been good or normal, so how could I be a good girlfriend to him. I feel so angry mostly for this point. I really did support him a lot and tried to do what I could for him. I think I did a LOT for him. For him to just ignore al that and appreciate none of it, while the two of us are in this weird, confusing limbo, then for him to get Sooooo hurt by my messages and say this stuff to me ^ just hurts SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH! At this point I just give the hell up. I can't do anything anymore. I'm just going to give it up. if he's going to be this unjust and ignore everything good i DID do for him and dwell just on the bad (WHICH WAS BAD BECAUSE THINGS HAVE NOT BEEN GOOD BETWEEN US...WHAT DID HE EXPECT) then I am done. If I speak with him I'm just going to be angry again. So I sent a final message to him, saying, I'll try to let you go like you said. Just regret so much. I should respect your wishes. I want you to be happy. God, like a week ago he sounded like he wanted to get back together, and I was really hesitant, then I acted mean to him and now he doesn't want to speak to me anymore, says I make him sick. GOD IS EVERYTHING A GAME? I don't know what's real or not anymore but I'm SICK OF THIS!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Fufu Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 Saturday night I said really angry, mean things to him and since then he's stopped speaking to me. This is from an email he sent today: **** you. I already told u what I think. We are over. I don't ever want to interact with you. Way too little, way too late. You dont know how to support. I told you you're only making yourself get upset. I am beyond over you. I will ignore you for the rest of my life. So stop wasting your time. I sent more emails saying how sorry I was, trying to make him see that things haven't been good or normal, so how could I be a good girlfriend to him. I feel so angry mostly for this point. I really did support him a lot and tried to do what I could for him. I think I did a LOT for him. For him to just ignore al that and appreciate none of it, while the two of us are in this weird, confusing limbo, then for him to get Sooooo hurt by my messages and say this stuff to me ^ just hurts SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH! At this point I just give the hell up. I can't do anything anymore. I'm just going to give it up. if he's going to be this unjust and ignore everything good i DID do for him and dwell just on the bad (WHICH WAS BAD BECAUSE THINGS HAVE NOT BEEN GOOD BETWEEN US...WHAT DID HE EXPECT) then I am done. If I speak with him I'm just going to be angry again. So I sent a final message to him, saying, I'll try to let you go like you said. Just regret so much. I should respect your wishes. I want you to be happy. God, like a week ago he sounded like he wanted to get back together, and I was really hesitant, then I acted mean to him and now he doesn't want to speak to me anymore, says I make him sick. GOD IS EVERYTHING A GAME? I don't know what's real or not anymore but I'm SICK OF THIS!!!! Sweet, my suggestion is to let him go and stop contacting him. He doesn't feel the same way in this relationship you are feeling. If he truly and sincerely want to be with you again, he wouldn't treat you in this manner. Always read their actions not their words. Link to post Share on other sites
Excalibur1814 Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 Once a relationship reaches the deep hurtful angry stage like this there can be a worry that it may carry on in the same manner. The good times, the low arguments and anger, back to the good times. It becomes like a drug with energy being taken and fed upon. In all honesty I would now leave this alone. Further messages will just keep the situation alive, aggravating and upsetting things further. You've probably said what needs to be said and anything else can be left un-said. As you say, you've been supportive and if he/others cannot see that then maybe ANYTHING you do might not be enough/good enough. Shame A new start awaits you away from this negative situation and all that remains is to be strong and to remove the final ties. Sure, if the person needs help, maybe you can be a friend but without the shouting and nasty e-mails Link to post Share on other sites
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