Fin Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 hey guys, i am a 19 year old guy and have a girlfriend who who is also 19. We are both each others first. we have been going out for nearly 2 years but i want to break up. we nearly broke up the other week,but ended up staying together. the reason i want to break up is that i want to be alone i dont want to be in a relationship any more. i as well as her have been drifting further and further away from our friends over the past 2 years to the point that i dont get invited o do anything anymore, and nethier does she with her friends. i dont want to be with anyone else, i just feel that it is time for me to be alone. i still love her i just feel that i am not IN love with her. but each time i try to break up she says "so you want to break up because you want to be alone, but what about in a couple of months?" and i say i dont know what i will want in a couple of months and then she says i dont think we should break up this great relationship just because you think you want to be alone" so i give in and we stay together. i feel horrible thinking and writing about this but i dont know what else to do. if anyone has any ideas or suggestions it would be greatly appreciated. thanks for reading this far Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 i still love her i just feel that i am not IN love with her. This is all you needed to say. Move on, I'm sorry that it's going to hurt. If you are confused and question your feelings for your current girlfriend...I feel as if you should break up with her in order to figure yourself out. Now remember if you break up...there might be no way to come back. So think about it...if you really love her stay with her...And if you don't you'll find someone better. Link to post Share on other sites
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