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Is he just pacifying me


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Well this is the second day that I have had peace with my husband. We have not really discussed the problems we have had and we are just living like nothing happened. This is per his request, he seems to think not talking about things right now is for the best. We have been affectionate toward one another and spending time together as a family. The strange part is at times out of the blue he gets frustrated with me easily but it only last a minute. He has never displayed this behavior and the truth things are not like they were before this all happened. He says I think to much and I should turn my thinking off. He has told me he wants our relationship to be easy and I'm trying to give him that but it is difficult. I like that we are not arguing but I feel I'm living slightly fake. He did call me today before booking his travel. He seems to be accepting that I will go with him. He says he can't believe I would think he cheated because he would never jeopardize loosing our daughter or not seeing her everyday. He went with me to my doctors appointment. The babies doing well. Do you think things will ever be noel lime they were? Is it just going to take some te for us to get 100 percent on track? Is he just pacifying me cause he doesn't want to argue but he doesn't want to go through a divorce either? Does he love me, how can I know or does he really want out? I don't know anymore, I can't tell. I know he loves our daughter to pieces, will he have the same bond with the new baby? Are my feelings just my own insecurities. How can I feel like everything is going to be ok. I'm just waiting for his next blow-up.

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