bobay117 Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 my girlfriend and i are both 17. we've only been dating for about 2 months but she really strikes a chord with me, and i know (well at least i thought this before) we are gonna be together for a long time. so about a week ago, we got into an argument about her wanting her space, so i drove all the way into her town to talk to her in person about it. turns out she left to go to her girlfriends house, and later that night kisses another guy. The next day i got her flowers, and we went out to breakfast, and we were back together and everything was fine...but i knew by her body language that something just wasnt there. so a couple days later, i met up with her at her house and she told me face to face, what happened. She started crying and kept going on and on about how she thought it was wrong and how she wanted to still be with me. my mind is just racing because this is whats going through my head....Why did she tell me that she kissed him, and not have lied? now i cant even look at her the same way i did, and i can never have that thought leave me head. I know this sounds dumb because most people think this sounds like "young love" lol, but it really hit me because whats the point of being in a relationship when you're just gonna cheat on them? If there's anyone out there who can give me some advice on what to do, i wanna thank them for not only that, but for reading my long story. thanks guys Link to post Share on other sites
rafallus Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 but it really hit me because whats the point of being in a relationship when you're just gonna cheat on them? None. You're too young to commit to her. Go and "kiss" more girls than she did kiss guys. Several years later, you'd beat yourself up over how many opportunities you lost and she'll be just a remote memory. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 What would I do in your shoes? later that night kisses another guy. The next day i got her flowers Certainly NOT that. I would dump her immediately. You have just rewarded her for cheating on you, WTF? whats the point of being in a relationship when you're just gonna cheat on them? If there's anyone out there who can give me some advice on what to do Indeed. Dump. Link to post Share on other sites
Woman In Blue Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 Oh my gosh. You're still children. Stop looking at this young girl as though she's the "one" that you'll be with for a long, long time. There are going to be MANY girls you'll meet and date over the next 10-15 years. Many. Link to post Share on other sites
vsmini Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 What would I do in your shoes? Certainly NOT that. I would dump her immediately. You have just rewarded her for cheating on you, WTF? Indeed. Dump. I don't think he knew when he got her flowers- she told him the next day. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 Okay, a little confused.. You found out that she kissed a guy and then later found out it was something more than kissing...or, after you got her flowers and took her out to breakfast did she confess that she kissed this guy? Which one is it? Link to post Share on other sites
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