skyler Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=blue][/color] I have been with my man for a year now. We met at work and were friends for about a year before we started dating. At the time he was dating someone and so was I. The first 7 months of our relationship were jealousy free. A few months ago, I began to feel very jealous and insecure. He lost 45 pounds and now it doesn't seem like he is as attracted to me as he used to be. I am about 5-10 pounds over weight. We both work out everyday together and I have not seen results like he has. I see him check out girls more often and girls checking him out more now too. Plus a majoity of his friends are girls and he still maintains a friendship with his ex-girlfriends. I think that it is great that he is able to remain friends with them, but it bothers me when he talks to them on the phone or occasionally hang out with them. I know that he is with me because he want to be with me, but I can't help but be jealous. Is it normal for me to feel this way? How do I stop the pain? Link to post Share on other sites
Sundaymorning Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 Well, you might want to let him know that when he checks out other girls, it is NOT ok with you. You need to realize that he is with you. This might not be a great relationship choice for you though. Might want to get out if talking to him about this doesnt help. Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 It's not very considerate of him to be checking out other girls like that, especially if you're right there with him! Having lost 45 pounds in such a short time period, I'm guessing his ego is still pretty swelled up. This may calm down in time. Link to post Share on other sites
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