Username37 Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 Hello guys, I've been on this site for a while, but first time on this board Anyways, my girlfriend and I recently graduated from HS and we've been going out already for a few months. We've been best friends for the longest time and didn't officially date for a while because I was still hung over my ex. I recently went on vacation for 2 weeks out of the country and I missed her dearly and it showed that I truly loved this girl. My girlfriend and I will be going to different colleges in the same state (she's staying in town while I'm going north and 8 hours driving distance away). Me being away from her for 2 weeks gave me a taste of what college is going to be like and it was terrible. I'm her first love and boyfriend and she's my second. I'm unsure whether to break it off or not. I really love this girl, but I'm unsure if I can do this and if she can do this. I also can't stand the thought of her messing around with other guys and she also told me the same. I'm also worried about drifting apart. We're going our separate ways in August What should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
johnnyriga Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 i'm currently going through one and i suggest u break up. college is very demanding mentally and emotionally Link to post Share on other sites
JadedAmore Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 Have you tried talking to her about this? What are her feelings? IMO, it shouldn't be a decision made just by one half of the relationship -- it should be made by both of you. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
creighton0123 Posted July 4, 2011 Share Posted July 4, 2011 I have never met a high school couple who went away to different colleges and were still together and in love four years later. That's not to say there aren't any. That's to say that the experiences in college and the chance to meet new people typically outweigh the desire to be monogamous in a long distance relationship with someone from high school. I'd say have a fun summer and go your separate ways. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Username37 Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 Have you tried talking to her about this? What are her feelings? IMO, it shouldn't be a decision made just by one half of the relationship -- it should be made by both of you. Good luck! We spoke about it a few times. She's gonna try and I'm going to try. I'm only going to be away for one year. Then I'm going back to town and going to the same college Link to post Share on other sites
RedDoll Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 don't go back to the town college because of her. if it's for your own future like the college is better for your major or opportunites then it is fine, but to go back for a high school girlfriend. seriously, don't. Link to post Share on other sites
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