4yreyes Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 Long distance relationship-I am talking 2 different countries. Both long time married, I would consider leave mine for him, he won't leave his ever he says as couldnt bear hurting her. Have met 3 times and spent time together and in person like we have known each other all our lives, yet doesnt change status-he will not leave, still cares deeply for his wife yet we are in contact nearly every day or 2. How do you break it off/should I break it off or say what the hell, enjoy the love without having to do the laundry (only joking). I get so down reading all the postings here about MM who wont leave etc. Both of us had never done this before, started out quite innocent chatting in a group forum on line nearly 4 years ago. Dont know what sort of response etc. I am looking for, probably just want to hear from people if you have been in a similar situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 Not every MM is a big dick hound. Some DO end up on the internet and finally find a person they can share a piece of their intimate selves with. Distance isn't the point. Ofcourse, I got into one of those thinking he was legally separated headed for divorce. Seems everyone was aware of that.....except her. Anyway...... At some point you no longer feel like a major player in their real life. You are reduced to feeling like a commercial in between what their life really consists of. If it's a really good commercial and it fulfills what you need....then go with it. Sooner or later though, you have to admit to yourself that he has the best of both worlds....while you only have your computer. Is it fair? NO. Does it make you feel really loved and special? NO. Actually, there is NOTHING in it for you but...well....you know. And while you are all wrapped up in this.....you are missing out in finding someone who may actually BE able to spend holidays and a life with you. I'm not judging your situation......I'm only hoping you aren't wasting your love on someone who doesn't have the capacity to give you anything but lip service.....or typing skills. I'll PM you. Link to post Share on other sites
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