Author one goal Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 One goal, you have had ZERO success with continuing to pursue women that you thought were hot and who you wanted to have sex with. How has that pursuit worked for you? It hasn't. So why not FOR ONCE try something different? How about let this go? When did I say I want to boink her? How do u know I just might like her because she's friendly? Link to post Share on other sites
rafallus Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 When did I say I want to boink her? How do u know I just might like her because she's friendly? You're not fooling anyone. Sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
Cracker Jack Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 When did I say I want to boink her? How do u know I just might like her because she's friendly? I wanna bone her. Hai there! Link to post Share on other sites
Teknoe Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 When did I say I want to boink her? How do u know I just might like her because she's friendly? epic fail, as seen in the post above this one. LOL C'mon one goal, this is far beyond sad at this point. She's a nice girl, so she texts you back, but probably wishes you stopped texting her altogether. I guaranteed as soon as class ends, she'll never speak with you again, even through text. This is how females operate when you scare them off, they'll put on a friendly face to get through the real life proximity awkwardness, but as soon as you guys don't see each other anymore, she'll ignore you for good. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 6, 2011 Author Share Posted July 6, 2011 epic fail, as seen in the post above this one. LOL C'mon one goal, this is far beyond sad at this point. She's a nice girl, so she texts you back, but probably wishes you stopped texting her altogether. I guaranteed as soon as class ends, she'll never speak with you again, even through text. This is how females operate when you scare them off, they'll put on a friendly face to get through the real life proximity awkwardness, but as soon as you guys don't see each other anymore, she'll ignore you for good. I never said anything to scare her! I've always been polite to this girl. I can see why she wouldn't talk to me after class is over because we wont see each other again and that. She has my on facebook, so if she deleted me, then that would be cause for alarm. Link to post Share on other sites
Teknoe Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 I never said anything to scare her! I've always been polite to this girl. I can see why she wouldn't talk to me after class is over because we wont see each other again and that. She has my on facebook, so if she deleted me, then that would be cause for alarm. It's not always what you say to a girl that scares her. It's also: 1. How you say things 2. Your body language 3. How you look at her It's clear she's a bit creeped out by you. You've always been polite to this girl, you say? Would you want to keep being polite to her? (you're nodding yes I can see) Then good, do NOT ask her out again. if you do ask her out again, then you are no longer being polite to her and her boundaries. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 10, 2011 Author Share Posted July 10, 2011 The last two times I've texted her she hasn't replied. She always replys to my text before and is very chatty. I texted her last night to see what was up, she was working though I know, but today i texted her about an assignment and no reply. Link to post Share on other sites
thehead Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 LOL. Keep up the good fight on this thread men. Not sure it's going anywhere but you're all soldiers for trying. Onegoal, don't be a menace. In the hood or anywhere else. Link to post Share on other sites
Teknoe Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 The last two times I've texted her she hasn't replied. She always replys to my text before and is very chatty. I texted her last night to see what was up, she was working though I know, but today i texted her about an assignment and no reply. aaaand... you're shocked? You were well warned of this by all of us. We told you if you kept talking to her, eventually her nice girl act is gonna shut down and she'll flat out ignore you. You didn't believe us, based on your actions to still pursue her (even in "friendship" terms). She was more and more annoyed. Now she's giving you the cold shoulder since that's the only way you'll "get it." She was hoping you would know better and stop on your own, but since you didn't, NOW SHE IS STOPPING YOU. Learn from this, move on and don't make the same mistakes with the next girl. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 10, 2011 Author Share Posted July 10, 2011 aaaand... you're shocked? You were well warned of this by all of us. We told you if you kept talking to her, eventually her nice girl act is gonna shut down and she'll flat out ignore you. You didn't believe us, based on your actions to still pursue her (even in "friendship" terms). She was more and more annoyed. Now she's giving you the cold shoulder since that's the only way you'll "get it." She was hoping you would know better and stop on your own, but since you didn't, NOW SHE IS STOPPING YOU. Learn from this, move on and don't make the same mistakes with the next girl. Well the last time I talked to her in text on wed night she was nice as usual. However in class earlier that day she wasn't quite as chatty as usual. The night before that I think is when I asked her again if she wanted to hangout. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 One goal, many women have problems rejecting men and saying no. So they prefer to use the silent treatment and hope that he goes away. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 10, 2011 Author Share Posted July 10, 2011 So what should I expect from her when I see her in class on tue? Link to post Share on other sites
Mark1 Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 So what should I expect from her when I see her in class on tue? Nothing at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 11, 2011 Author Share Posted July 11, 2011 Nothing at all. I mean do you think she will tell me to stop texting her? Link to post Share on other sites
utterer of lies Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 I mean do you think she will tell me to stop texting her? Do you think you should stop texting her? Why / Why not? Link to post Share on other sites
rafallus Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 I mean do you think she will tell me to stop texting her?If she says so, will you comply, and why won't you? Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 I mean do you think she will tell me to stop texting her? Why does she have to *tell* you this though? Why not just take a hint and back off? One Goal, do you have male friends - any friends - you can talk to about this stuff? There's gotta be someone in your life [that can smack you] that can help you to figure out basic social cues. Link to post Share on other sites
VertexSquared Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 (edited) Am I the only one that thinks this guy is trolling? I sincerely can't believe anyone could be this thick. I'm sorry for being blunt, but onegoal, if for whatever reason you *aren't* trolling, you really, really need to back off from this girl. Just because this girl is polite in person doesn't mean she's interested in you. Her actions are clearly letting you know, gently, that she's not interested. You seem to think that unless she turns into a flaming b*tchdragon, it's OK for you to keep pushing. You are not entitled to her interest, and it's frankly creepy beyond words when it comes to the way you describe her, as if she owes you. Edited July 11, 2011 by VertexSquared Link to post Share on other sites
amethyste Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 Am I the only one that thinks this guy is trolling? I sincerely can't believe anyone could be this thick. Nope, you're not the only one. I often can't tell if some users are coo coo in the cabeza/ trolling/ or just stupid. I tend to believe most of them are trolls, though... Link to post Share on other sites
Dorie Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 Am I the only one that thinks this guy is trolling? I sincerely can't believe anyone could be this thick. I'm sorry for being blunt, but onegoal, if for whatever reason you *aren't* trolling, you really, really need to back off from this girl. Just because this girl is polite in person doesn't mean she's interested in you. Her actions are clearly letting you know, gently, that she's not interested. You seem to think that unless she turns into a flaming b*tchdragon, it's OK for you to keep pushing. You are not entitled to her interest, and it's frankly creepy beyond words when it comes to the way you describe her, as if she owes you. Agreed. As a long time lurker on this board, I'm confident in saying he is not trolling and indeed exhibits disturbing behavior. He has quite a long history of this kind of thing, behavior that has bled over into celebrity stalking (if one's to believe the links previously posted that led to said information). For that reason, it seems doubly important to not post sarcastic, tongue-in-cheek "advice" that the OP will take seriously. LSers used to do such things back before the full extent of the OPs problems became apparent. The lengths of his threads were epic. Much of the advice were jokes poking fun at his determination. I've noticed a reduction in responses to his threads, perhaps since most realize now he's not trolling at all, but rather, quite serious. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 12, 2011 Author Share Posted July 12, 2011 I texted her earlier today see how she was and about our school work. Once again no reply. Why would she be nice and all of a sudden just stops replying? What should I expect in class tomorrow then? Will she mention texting? Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 I texted her earlier today see how she was and about our school work. Once again no reply. Why would she be nice and all of a sudden just stops replying? Because she is trying to give you the message that she has no interest in you whatsoever beyond the classroom but is being too nice about it. What should I expect in class tomorrow then? Will she mention texting? Don't know. But what you can expect if you carry on down this route is that she will mention it to someone in authority and you will receive at least an official warning to back off and stop stalking (again) Link to post Share on other sites
Mark1 Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 This is awesome. Onegoal - never talk to or text this girl again. Link to post Share on other sites
Cracker Jack Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 I texted her earlier today see how she was and about our school work. Once again no reply. Why would she be nice and all of a sudden just stops replying? What should I expect in class tomorrow then? Will she mention texting? Stop texting her, dude. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 12, 2011 Author Share Posted July 12, 2011 Because she is trying to give you the message that she has no interest in you whatsoever beyond the classroom but is being too nice about it. Don't know. But what you can expect if you carry on down this route is that she will mention it to someone in authority and you will receive at least an official warning to back off and stop stalking (again) Why doesn't she just tell me to stop texting then? Why doesn't she want to talk to me outside of class? even though it's not dating related? Schools out on the 27th so I mean she cant do anything then. You mean like go to the police? This is BS. Why is she being b*tchy about it? Link to post Share on other sites
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