Author one goal Posted July 14, 2011 Author Share Posted July 14, 2011 I texted her a few minutes ago about classwork, but also sent her a text saying sorry i was txting her sooo much a couple weeks ago because I said I was so shy because shes the nicest and prettiest girl I've ever met at school. So far no reply! She's on facebook posting from her Iphone so she had to get the text, and she doesnt have my number blocked or else the message gets kicked back. Link to post Share on other sites
welikeincrowds Posted July 14, 2011 Share Posted July 14, 2011 She's on facebook posting from her Iphone so she had to get the text, and she doesnt have my number blocked or else the message gets kicked back. How do you know this? Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 14, 2011 Author Share Posted July 14, 2011 How do you know this? Because if a text message doesn't go thru it gets kicked back to you. I have a friend with an Iphone and sometimes it has troubles getting messages and kicks them back if it doesnt go thru. Why would she talk to me at school but wont ever reply to my texts anymore? Last Wed last time we talked in text and everything was fine, friendly and then after that whenever I text her she doesn't reply. It's odd. She was very chatty too whenever I texted her. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted July 14, 2011 Share Posted July 14, 2011 It's not odd at all. She feels social pressure to speak to you to your face, when you are there panting and hanging on her every word. SHE IS BEING POLITE. That's ALL. When you are out of sight, you are out of her "need to be polite" space. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 14, 2011 Author Share Posted July 14, 2011 It's not odd at all. She feels social pressure to speak to you to your face, when you are there panting and hanging on her every word. SHE IS BEING POLITE. That's ALL. When you are out of sight, you are out of her "need to be polite" space. But still, before via text why would she talk to me a lot, then just stop texting one day? That's what I found odd. Why did she decide to stop texting me? Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 15, 2011 Author Share Posted July 15, 2011 It's not odd at all. She feels social pressure to speak to you to your face, when you are there panting and hanging on her every word. SHE IS BEING POLITE. That's ALL. When you are out of sight, you are out of her "need to be polite" space. I'm not. I'm actually shy sometimes, but I'm more comfortable face to face with her now. Not as nervous. I'm very polite to her though. Like the other day in class when we had break I asked her if she wanted anything from downstairs in the lounge because I was getting a drink and she just mumbled "um no." Link to post Share on other sites
P&R Posted July 15, 2011 Share Posted July 15, 2011 But still, before via text why would she talk to me a lot, then just stop texting one day? That's what I found odd. Why did she decide to stop texting me? I can tell you exactly why she stopped texting you. This girl wanted to be polite and friendly to keep things less awkward in class. You took it as a sign that she might be interested. You decided to text her constantly. She picked up on this fact and decided to stop texting you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 15, 2011 Author Share Posted July 15, 2011 I can tell you exactly why she stopped texting you. This girl wanted to be polite and friendly to keep things less awkward in class. You took it as a sign that she might be interested. You decided to text her constantly. She picked up on this fact and decided to stop texting you. Could that be what she does with guys? Like I said she's very good looking, so I'm sure at her university she get's hit on by many guys. Link to post Share on other sites
P&R Posted July 15, 2011 Share Posted July 15, 2011 Could that be what she does with guys? Like I said she's very good looking, so I'm sure at her university she get's hit on by many guys. No... it's probably just what she does to you. Normally guys will take a hint when she says no. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 15, 2011 Author Share Posted July 15, 2011 No... it's probably just what she does to you. Normally guys will take a hint when she says no. Honestly she is single, and I was nice to her so shouldn't she have at least hung out with me to be friends? Why did she consider it a date just wanting to go to lunch when I asked her out the first time? Link to post Share on other sites
Mark1 Posted July 15, 2011 Share Posted July 15, 2011 I can't help but laugh when I read One Goals user name. Link to post Share on other sites
P&R Posted July 15, 2011 Share Posted July 15, 2011 Honestly she is single, and I was nice to her so shouldn't she have at least hung out with me to be friends? Why did she consider it a date just wanting to go to lunch when I asked her out the first time? Just because she is single doesn't mean you are entitled to a date with her. She does not want to date you and she is definitely not interested in you. Stop asking why and move on already. Link to post Share on other sites
P&R Posted July 15, 2011 Share Posted July 15, 2011 I can't help but laugh when I read One Goals user name. I feel sorry for whoever his paticular "goal" at the moment is Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 15, 2011 Author Share Posted July 15, 2011 Just because she is single doesn't mean you are entitled to a date with her. She does not want to date you and she is definitely not interested in you. Stop asking why and move on already. What is it I done to her to not even want to go just hangout with me? When i asked the second time like two weeks ago she said "I understand but seriously i don't have the time, like tonight i might not even see my friends cause of homework." Link to post Share on other sites
Cracker Jack Posted July 15, 2011 Share Posted July 15, 2011 Every single time someone throws a valid point your way, you go back to asking the same question. What will it take for you to understand that this woman is simply not interested in you? I'm pretty sure if she's openly honest about how she feels, you'll just say she's mean or something. Her actions clearly show that she's not into you, dude. Sometimes you just have to take a L and move on. No shame in doing that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 15, 2011 Author Share Posted July 15, 2011 Every single time someone throws a valid point your way, you go back to asking the same question. What will it take for you to understand that this woman is simply not interested in you? I'm pretty sure if she's openly honest about how she feels, you'll just say she's mean or something. Her actions clearly show that she's not into you, dude. Sometimes you just have to take a L and move on. No shame in doing that. Well she worked like a 12 hr shift today, so maybe she text back because she didn't have time to at work? Link to post Share on other sites
Cracker Jack Posted July 15, 2011 Share Posted July 15, 2011 You did it again. Link to post Share on other sites
VertexSquared Posted July 15, 2011 Share Posted July 15, 2011 You guys, for the umpteenth time, he is trolling you. He's clearly doing it on purpose. The more you try to help him the more intentionally frustrating and tunnelvisioned he will be. Link to post Share on other sites
Mark1 Posted July 15, 2011 Share Posted July 15, 2011 Yup, not funny anymore. He's a troll. Link to post Share on other sites
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