DreamerGirl27 Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 Okay, so the boy I've been so obsessed with texted me last night! he hasn't in a long time! and 2....I got a message on my dating site account from the CUTEST (yet extremely young) boy! I'm 26, he's 19 (boy do I like 'em young!!). The age gap seems a bit extreme for me, 21 is almost too young to me, but OMG is he adorable ! I just messaged him back and I hope I didn't sound like a dork and I hope he messages me back ! Good Lord does he beat all the ugly dorks who've been messaging me! He almost looks like a Hanson brother in a way (and even has one of their names haha). Finally, somebody decent messages me! I really hope he messages back!! Ohemgee...I just realized I completely forgot to even READ his profile I was just so taken aback by how cute he was! lmao So yay, boy I have a crush on texted me and boy I could develop a crush on messaged me! Could my single streak be coming to a halt somewhere in the near future???? Who knows! I just know I'm happy!! and pleasantly surprised at the same time! Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 Oh... I thought perhaps maybe you won a million dollars in the lottery and then placed an order for a male Realdoll. Link to post Share on other sites
erika2610 Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 Okay, so the boy I've been so obsessed with texted me last night! he hasn't in a long time! and 2....I got a message on my dating site account from the CUTEST (yet extremely young) boy! I'm 26, he's 19 (boy do I like 'em young!!). The age gap seems a bit extreme for me, 21 is almost too young to me, but OMG is he adorable ! I just messaged him back and I hope I didn't sound like a dork and I hope he messages me back ! Good Lord does he beat all the ugly dorks who've been messaging me! He almost looks like a Hanson brother in a way (and even has one of their names haha). Finally, somebody decent messages me! I really hope he messages back!! Ohemgee...I just realized I completely forgot to even READ his profile I was just so taken aback by how cute he was! lmao So yay, boy I have a crush on texted me and boy I could develop a crush on messaged me! Could my single streak be coming to a halt somewhere in the near future???? Who knows! I just know I'm happy!! and pleasantly surprised at the same time! Not to burst your bubble - but do you realize how shallow that is? You messaged back a 19 yr. old boy, without even reading his profile - just because he's cute? Link to post Share on other sites
PelicanPete Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 holy crap, you're 26? I thought you were like 15 mind=blown. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 30, 2011 Author Share Posted June 30, 2011 holy crap, you're 26? I thought you were like 15 mind=blown. I have no idea why. I post mature, responsible posts. I thought you were 3 and got set loose with your mom's keyboard. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 30, 2011 Author Share Posted June 30, 2011 Not to burst your bubble - but do you realize how shallow that is? You messaged back a 19 yr. old boy, without even reading his profile - just because he's cute? Not to burst your bubble, but do you realize whether you're attracted to your mate is just as important as liking their personality? Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 30, 2011 Author Share Posted June 30, 2011 Not to burst your bubble - but do you realize how shallow that is? You messaged back a 19 yr. old boy, without even reading his profile - just because he's cute? Also, I have to add, that it is not a crime to be physically attracted to someone. We're physical human beings, looks play a big role in how we perceive the world. Girls are objectified WAY more for their looks. Myself included. I'm a petite girl. No, I'm not 100lbs and sickly thin, but I'm a size 2-4 in women's sizes, 3-5 in junior's sizes and I posted a picture of myself and some chick said I looked like (or was trolling) a size 10-12. She also said something like my thighs were bigger than hers, which I find hard to believe, because chicken legs run in my family, I have them, and my friends constantly tease me for having chicken legs. Point is, I'm a small girl and people have accused me of being fat. (I personally think they are trolling) It's like all the girls in the media, all the stick thin girls and people started calling Miley Cyrus fat or something as she was getting older and the girl still looks dang near anorexic she's so thin. I just watched a Paris Hilton show where she got accused of being pregnant because she has gained a few lbs and has the smallest, almost unnoticeable little bit of a pudge in her midsection. It's sickening how much this country cares about looks. And girls are way more objectified than guys. A guy can be a fat slob, bald and if a girl says "I don't like him because of his looks" she's chastised for it. So what, I want a guy I'm attracted to? Your point is? To get accused of being shallow because I messaged back (not messaged, messaged BACK, he messaged me first) is just a slap in the face that was not deserved. He also states in his profile that while he'd like to find a girl his age, he tends to be attracted to older girls. I would like to find a guy my age, but I've always tended to be attracted to younger guys. It's just preference and right there we have something in common. Because I did read his profile and I was interested, I just got a little gaga when I first saw him because he was gorgeous. Nothing wrong with that and you had no right to burst my bubble, or my excitedness. It was just uncalled for and rude. You sound like a troll. You're damn right I messaged him back because he was cute. What human being in their right mind wouldn't? I would appreciate an apology for your rude post. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 30, 2011 Author Share Posted June 30, 2011 This is the last thing I am going to say, erika2610... Your post also insinuated that I'm some cougar, going after a "younger boy". I'm 26, not 46. 7 years is not that big of an age gap. Maybe it's the stigma of women that are supposed to be attracted to older men. I have never been and probably never will be attracted to older men. I like guys right around my age, a few years older or younger. 10 years is almost pushing it for me if it's in the older direction. As long as it's legal, if I can get myself a 19 year old, hell ya, go me!! there was no point to your post, other than just to be mean, because you somehow think my posts are offensive, which they are not. I would appreciate it if people would stop attacking me on the boards once and for all. If you don't, I'm just going to attack you back twice as hard and make you feel twice as bad. Because what I say is truth, and I never troll. I say what's honest and right. Don't like it? Don't respond to my posts. Link to post Share on other sites
Clyde_C Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 Frankly you do sound very hateful and shallow. Each week I come back to a slew of new posts by you talking about how anybody who isn't attractive by your standards is gross and wasting your time by trying to talk to you, how you insist on lusting after a guy who obviously is only interested in playing around and not getting serious, or angry argumentative replies to anyone who doesn't completely support you. Not everyone is out to attack you when they criticize your behavior. The fact is even the good looking guys who are worth dating would be turned off by your attitude. You say it doesn't make you shallow to message a complete stranger who says hello based on the fact you find him physically attractive? You already prove that you value nothing outside of looks by opening yourself up to potential harassment from somebody you may not have a single thing in common with. And no, finding him attractive is not "having something in common". You are making the assumption that good looking = good person. And most girls who go out throwing themselves at the pretty boys most likely end up getting hurt. Regardless of how carefully you protect yourself from premarital sex, handsome men are not above promising you everything and throwing out a gleaming smile to get what they want. In fact, the prettier the guy the more likely he knows how to use his looks. This is all based on simply going after a guy because he's visually appealing, though. You can hate it all you want, but the fact is that anybody realistically wanting a happy relationship is going to have to loosen their standards on looks to a realistic level. If you insist on the best looking men, you are going to get a crowd that knows they can get what they want from any desperate girl because they look good, and you will be forced to give up your V-card or watch Mr. Handsome ride off into the sunset with another girlie. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 You come across as far from mature, and now you think people are having a go at you, maybe you could take a step back and think about why your posts get people's backs up. I have no idea why. I post mature, responsible posts. I thought you were 3 and got set loose with your mom's keyboard. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 >Good Lord does he beat all the ugly dorks who've been messaging me! < I mean seriously! C'mon Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 Because what I say is truth, and I never troll. I say what's honest and right. Don't like it? Don't respond to my posts. Ain't gonna happen, sister. I've been telling the truth on here for years and they still won't listen. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 30, 2011 Author Share Posted June 30, 2011 No, it is not all about looks, but when I have a -50% attraction to EVERY guy that messages me, there's a problem. So yes, I got excited when a guy I find attractive actually messaged me. And what I find attractive is not your typical attraction. Not that that matters. It's not like I'm going for super models, but I'm not going to date a guy with a beer gut and a receding hair line, either. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 30, 2011 Author Share Posted June 30, 2011 >Good Lord does he beat all the ugly dorks who've been messaging me! < I mean seriously! C'mon He does. ::shrugs:: I like to uplift guys I find attractive. He's hella cute and the rest of the guys are so beneath my level it's not even funny. It's like, "you messaged me why? I'm a young, cute girl, and you're an old, ugly troll" (troll as in exceptionally ugly, not the internet term). I don't usually believe in leagues, but come on!! Sometimes I think these guys are desperate and will message anyone because they can't get attention from ANY girl. Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 No, it is not all about looks, but when I have a -50% attraction to EVERY guy that messages me, there's a problem. So yes, I got excited when a guy I find attractive actually messaged me. And what I find attractive is not your typical attraction. Not that that matters. It's not like I'm going for super models, but I'm not going to date a guy with a beer gut and a receding hair line, either. Damn, that's me out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 30, 2011 Author Share Posted June 30, 2011 You were never in...long before I knew you had a beer gut. Due to the fact that you have 0 faith in God and your rude posts to me in the past. Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 He does. ::shrugs:: I like to uplift guys I find attractive. He's hella cute and the rest of the guys are so beneath my level it's not even funny. It's like, "you messaged me why? I'm a young, cute girl, and you're an old, ugly troll" (troll as in exceptionally ugly, not the internet term). I don't usually believe in leagues, but come on!! Sometimes I think these guys are desperate and will message anyone because they can't get attention from ANY girl. Yet right now, you're showing you have a very ugly personality. Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 You were never in...long before I knew you had a beer gut. Due to the fact that you have 0 faith in God and your rude posts to me in the past. Boo hoo, I'm so upset. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 the rest of the guys are so beneath my level it's not even funny. It's like, "you messaged me why? I'm a young, cute girl, and you're an old, ugly troll" I'm just going to quote your post and refrain from making an actual comment. Because what I really want to say would most likely get me banned. Link to post Share on other sites
erika2610 Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 This is the last thing I am going to say, erika2610... Your post also insinuated that I'm some cougar, going after a "younger boy". I'm 26, not 46. 7 years is not that big of an age gap. Maybe it's the stigma of women that are supposed to be attracted to older men. I have never been and probably never will be attracted to older men. I like guys right around my age, a few years older or younger. 10 years is almost pushing it for me if it's in the older direction. As long as it's legal, if I can get myself a 19 year old, hell ya, go me!! there was no point to your post, other than just to be mean, because you somehow think my posts are offensive, which they are not. I would appreciate it if people would stop attacking me on the boards once and for all. If you don't, I'm just going to attack you back twice as hard and make you feel twice as bad. Because what I say is truth, and I never troll. I say what's honest and right. Don't like it? Don't respond to my posts. I'm not going to apologize for anything. You came off as shallow, and I still stand by it. You messaged back a 19 yr. old without even reading his profile. You have no idea what he's like, other than that he's "adorable", and looks like a Hanson kid. It's really not my problem that you choose to get so defensive. Maybe once you grow up and learn to get past looks, and stop thinking people are "beneath" you, you will find the "one" you're looking for. Link to post Share on other sites
erika2610 Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 (edited) Let me pose you a question Dreamergirl. These guys you have no interest in - do they message you and you automatically write them off because of their looks? Are once you get to know them, you develop no interest in them because of their personalities? Edited June 30, 2011 by erika2610 Link to post Share on other sites
erika2610 Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 Let me pose you a question Dreamergirl. These guys you have no interest in - do they message you and you automatically write them off because of their looks? Are once you get to know them, you develop no interest in them because of their personalities? Should have been "or is it that once you get to know them, you develop no interest in them because of their personalities?" I don't even know why I'm asking, because I have a feeling it's the former of the two. Which makes you shallow. And nobody is beneath you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 30, 2011 Author Share Posted June 30, 2011 I don't give people I'm not attracted to a chance. First comes looks, if I'm attracted, then I go from there. If I'm not, I move on. If they are somewhere in the middle, I go for it and see if I like them for them. Most guys that message me are a -50% attraction. I can't bring myself to be kissing up on that and anyone who says they can is lying. Anyone who says they don't care about looks is lying. I'm not shallow, I'm honest. I'm sorry the rest of the world isn't. It is totally fine to not want to be with somebody you don't find attractive. I don't have to give anyone a chance if I don't want to. You come off as trying to push me into something I don't want to be involved in, just because you think it's shallow. I don't like ugly men. Sue me? Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 30, 2011 Author Share Posted June 30, 2011 I'm just going to quote your post and refrain from making an actual comment. Because what I really want to say would most likely get me banned. If you had the dudes messaging you that I do, you'd agree. I'm talkin', way way way obese or way way way fugly faces. Not just your average, every day guy. BELOW average. Guys are just as shallow. Most guys won't date a blue whale of a woman, but I can't be picky about who I'll date. It's not shallow to care about looks. You are all being harsh without warrant to be. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 30, 2011 Author Share Posted June 30, 2011 and who the bleep cares if he's 19?? Again, I already explained that, to which you didn't respond. I like younger guys. I'm not 40, I'm 26. 19 seems pretty normal for a girl my age. I'm sorry I don't like older guys. I never have. As soon as I saw he was 19, I was actually intrigued, on top of liking his looks. I have no set thing in what I want in a personality. That's the part I enjoy about getting to know someone. I have no standards when it comes to personality, because I don't know what I'm looking for. The only thing I have to go off of right off the bat to see if I even want to give someone a chance is their appearance. If I can't get past their appearance, I'm not gonna want to get anywhere near them physically. It would be gross! I don't know why I'm defending myself. I have NOTHING to defend. Link to post Share on other sites
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