somedude81 Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 (edited) I've often been told that I need to lower my standards since I'm having such a hard time with women. People have also been wondering what types of girls I'm into. I have a picture of me and a girl that I really like that was taken a few days ago. I'm not going to post the link here because I don't want the entire world seeing it. But if you're a regular poster and want to see it and give me your opinion; I can PM you a link. After that just post in this thread. And yes she is a couple inches taller than me. She's 5'8 and I'm 5'6, but I'm wearing insoles that add about an inch and a half. Still shorter than her though. Oh, I forgot to mention that you don't have to send me a PM asking for the link. Just say so here and I'll send you a message. Edited July 1, 2011 by somedude81 Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 You two look so natural and right together it's unreal. And, I'm not just saying that because I adore you, somedude. I'm being honest. Even your style of dress is similar. She's not "out of your league" at all. She's very lovely. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 You two look so natural and right together it's unreal. And, I'm not just saying that because I adore you, somedude. I'm being honest. Even your style of dress is similar. She's not "out of your league" at all. She's very lovely. In terms of the height difference, eh. It's a non-issue when you have those lifts in. My girlfriend is marrying a guy this weekend who's 5.3. She's 5.6. It can work. Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted July 1, 2011 Author Share Posted July 1, 2011 Thanks cerridwen, that's really sweat. And I didn't know about the adore thing What's really funny is that I've often thought if I was somehow changed into a girl, I'd be her. As for the height thing, thankfully she's not the type to wear heals. That's about as girly as she gets. No make-up, no dresses. Link to post Share on other sites
Cracker Jack Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Could I see it? Link to post Share on other sites
Content Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 May i see........ Link to post Share on other sites
Cracker Jack Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Thanks, dude. I honestly do not believe she's out of your league. Like cerrid, I think you two look very natural together. I know you're slightly boosting your height, but you two still look good together. I can't believe you've had so many struggles finding a girlfriend, man. You're a good looking dude. I hope she comes around soon, because you guys look really happy (and awesome) in that picture. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted July 1, 2011 Author Share Posted July 1, 2011 I like it being described that we look natural together. That's exactly what I think. I'm still trying to figure out why I have so much trouble with women. In a PM SmileFace said that she looks like she could be my sister and that the resemblance is crazy. She also pointed out that I shouldn't be so hard on myself. Link to post Share on other sites
zobomoho Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 I'm curious. I'm your height and I was seeing a girl who was 5''8'. May I see the picture? Link to post Share on other sites
motive2002 Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 If you think you are out of her league.. you are. You can feel lucky to be with her, but nobody is "out of your league" unless you put them there. rawr Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted July 1, 2011 Author Share Posted July 1, 2011 Zobomoho, sorry, for some reason I can't send you a PM. --- Personally, I don't think that she's out of my league. But I've often wondered if my sights are too high. That I should be aiming much lower. Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Can I see it please? Link to post Share on other sites
Alma Mobley Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Sure, let me see it. I'm honest. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 I'd like to see. Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted July 1, 2011 Author Share Posted July 1, 2011 I'm going to bed. I'll send out PM's to people when I get back on tomorrow so don't feel bad if I don't get back to you for a while Link to post Share on other sites
Afishwithabike Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Can I see it? Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 She is definitely not out of your league. You're both quite cute, and it's true -- you look really good together. I really do think your problems are mostly in your mind. The good news about that is that you can learn to think differently, to see yourself for your good qualities and not your perceived weaknesses. I understand the pressures of not fitting the height ideal. I'm a pretty tall female, and small is the ideal for (non-model) females. And though I'm not super tall, you'd be amazed at some of the stupid things guys will say to you as a tall woman. Even boyfriends my height or a few inches taller have made an issue of it, always insinuating or coming right out and saying that they would prefer to tower over me, presumably to feel more dominant or whatever. But it's a waste of time to worry about the height you were born with. Just go after that girl, and don't be shy about it. I think it is your self-doubt that keeps getting in the way. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 You look good together. She is kind of cute but not super hot or anything. My impression was that you go after model like girls. This girl is really silly to pass you over. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Teknoe Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 May I see as well? Thanks in advance. Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Can I see? Link to post Share on other sites
green_tea Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 I'm not a regular poster but I'd like to see.. Link to post Share on other sites
Rinnix Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Id like to see too! Link to post Share on other sites
Eeyore79 Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 I don't think comparing looks can really tell you anything about whether you'd have a chance as a couple. My boyfriend probably isn't the type you'd expect me to go for looks-wise - if I'm honest, I wasn't attracted to his looks when we first met. But after a while I got to know him, and I liked him and we had lots in common, so we started dating. I'd still like to see the picture though Link to post Share on other sites
rafallus Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 I don't think that such thing as "out of your league" even exists. Botching things due to insecurity most certainly does exist, OTOH. Link to post Share on other sites
jms_nov28 Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 I'd like to see. Love to give you my input on the matter. Link to post Share on other sites
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