kiss_andmakeup Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Alright, somedude, let's have it. Link to post Share on other sites
leftfordead2 Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Show me the picture too Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Send it. ... Link to post Share on other sites
Cee Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Please send me a PM, sumdude. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Cee Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Wow, somedude, you aren't a dude at all, you're a MAN. The two of you look great together. You look self-assured in the photo. I'm not a huge fan of the concept of leagues, but your photo is an example of couple that seem like a good match based on looks alone. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted July 1, 2011 Author Share Posted July 1, 2011 Alright, I should be caught up with PM's. You look good together. She is kind of cute but not super hot or anything. My impression was that you go after model like girls. This girl is really silly to pass you over. Cute but not super hot is exactly what I go for. I had a feeling that people were thinking that I was going only for model type girls. That's why I wanted to post the picture. Her passing me over is a complicated issue I'm not getting into here. She is definitely not out of your league. You're both quite cute, and it's true -- you look really good together. Thanks I really do think your problems are mostly in your mind. The good news about that is that you can learn to think differently, to see yourself for your good qualities and not your perceived weaknesses. I understand the pressures of not fitting the height ideal. I'm a pretty tall female, and small is the ideal for (non-model) females. And though I'm not super tall, you'd be amazed at some of the stupid things guys will say to you as a tall woman. Even boyfriends my height or a few inches taller have made an issue of it, always insinuating or coming right out and saying that they would prefer to tower over me, presumably to feel more dominant or whatever. But it's a waste of time to worry about the height you were born with. Just go after that girl, and don't be shy about it. I think it is your self-doubt that keeps getting in the way.Based on my life experiences, it's not all in my mind. Height is a an odd issue for me. I really don't think about it that much. The problem is that I keep hearing how it is important to women. Personally, I do wish that this girl was 4 inches shorter, for a variety of reasons. One of them is that I have a biting feeling that she'd be more attracted to me if I was taller than she. Wow, somedude, you aren't a dude at all, you're a MAN. The two of you look great together. You look self-assured in the photo. I'm not a huge fan of the concept of leagues, but your photo is an example of couple that seem like a good match based on looks alone. LOL, someman! It just doesn't sound good. Self-assured? Ha! I was completely nervous and wondering if I should put my arm around her or not. In the end I did but I lightly put my fingers on her shoulder. I've been touching her more but I'm not really sure about how she feels about it. She has actually rejected a hug the last time I saw her. Another things was that I was starting to get horny being so close to her. A few seconds longer and it would have turned into an embarrassing situation Thankfully all it took was one shot. Yeah seeing us together does show me that we look good together. I sent her a copy of the picture but I don't know is she looked at it or not. Ideally, I'd wish she show it to her parents and or friends and they'll tell her the same thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Zenobia Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Do you mind if I take a look? Link to post Share on other sites
Eeyore79 Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 You make a nice couple, and I really don't think she would pass you over based on looks alone. The height difference is negligible - I know other couples who are about the same height as you two. As an aside: I don't ever want to hear you complaining about being unattractive again, because you look perfectly cute to me. If I was single and you asked me out, I'd date you if I liked you as a person - your looks wouldn't be an issue for me at all. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Zenobia Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Ok. First thought: it ain't looks that are holding you back. Second thought: she's not out of your league (even though I think leagues are very relative anyway). Anyway, I don't what else to say except with a little confidence you'd have no problems with women. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
kiss_andmakeup Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Somedude, you guys complement each other perfectly. She is not out of your league AT ALL. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted July 1, 2011 Author Share Posted July 1, 2011 Honestly, this thread hasn't gone the way I expected at all. People telling me that I'm cute and that looks are not an issue. I really don't know what to think about it. I was basically starting to think that I was ugly. But it's now becoming clear that, that thought is wrong. So now I have a mystery. If it's not my looks, how come she and girls like her, don't like me? Link to post Share on other sites
Rinnix Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Aw she's cute. She has a friendly soft look to her. To those saying she's "not that hot" it's not very nice. If she put on makeup, she'd be a stunner no doubt. I don't think there's any league issues here, you two would look cute together 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 You both look good together. Absolutley nothing wrong with how you look. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
tman666 Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Send it on over! Link to post Share on other sites
ivalm Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 I'd like to see the pic if you don't mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted July 1, 2011 Author Share Posted July 1, 2011 Aw she's cute. She has a friendly soft look to her. To those saying she's "not that hot" it's not very nice. If she put on makeup, she'd be a stunner no doubt. I don't think there's any league issues here, you two would look cute together People only said that she's not super hot. And that's fine. Though you are right, that with some makeup, she'd be gorgeous. She also never takes her jacket off. Yeah, soft and friendly is a good way to describe her, when she's not talking like a sailor . Her look is definitely one reason I'm having such a hard time getting over her. Link to post Share on other sites
OliveOyl Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Can I see? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
tman666 Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 You guys look good together! And what the **** ever about her supposedly not being "super hot". Psshhhh. She looks like the type that would rock your brains out in the sack. Not to sound like pig or anything. May I ask why you're trying to get over her? Don't rehash everything on my account if you've already gone over that in other threads. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Afishwithabike Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 She's pretty! My husband said she filled out the shirt quite well. I didn't notice the height difference. You appear to be the same height. And based on some of the things you've said in your posts before, I expected you to look really unattractive, but that's not the case. You two look good together. If I saw you both on the street, I wouldn't do a double take wondering why you were with her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted July 1, 2011 Author Share Posted July 1, 2011 LOL rock by brains out in the sac! I really have no idea what she'd be like in bed. Why I'm trying to win her over? Her looks is number one. Then it's her personality and interests. We just mesh so well. We have a ton of fun when we are together and there is no shortage of things that we can do. And I'm not even talking about bedroom things. I'd be more interested in getting a list of things on why she doesn't want to date me. I think we'd be a great couple. But I don't have a clue how she thinks of me. Link to post Share on other sites
fortyninethousand322 Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 People only said that she's not super hot. And that's fine. Though you are right, that with some makeup, she'd be gorgeous. She also never takes her jacket off. Yeah, soft and friendly is a good way to describe her, when she's not talking like a sailor . Her look is definitely one reason I'm having such a hard time getting over her. I felt the exact same way about the way things ended with the last girl I "dated". She wasn't gorgeous in any objective way yet I was crazy about her, there was just something about her that drew me to her. Part of it was that "look" that she had and the other part was her dynamic personality. Can I see the pic? Link to post Share on other sites
OliveOyl Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 You both look good together. In fact there's a similarity between you two at least from the picture: the eyes, nose, coloring. Not out of your league. She's definitely cute. Hope things go well for you!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
tman666 Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Has she expressively said that she doesn't want to date you? If not, why are you even concerning yourself with potential reasons she wouldn't want to date you? Gotta be positive! Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted July 1, 2011 Author Share Posted July 1, 2011 She's pretty! My husband said she filled out the shirt quite well. I didn't notice the height difference. You appear to be the same height. And based on some of the things you've said in your posts before, I expected you to look really unattractive, but that's not the case. You two look good together. If I saw you both on the street, I wouldn't do a double take wondering why you were with her. Heh, filling out the shirt. That's one reason why I like her. Too bad she never takes a jacket off, it's like she's afraid of showing. The reason for a lack of height difference is because I'm wearing lifts in my shoes. When I wear sandals she is taller than me. Cool, so nobody would wonder, "what the hell is she doing with him?" You both look good together. In fact there's a similarity between you two at least from the picture: the eyes, nose, coloring. Not out of your league. She's definitely cute. Hope things go well for you!! The more I look at the pic, the more I notice that we do look similar. That's not a bad thing right? Thanks for the hope. Has she expressively said that she doesn't want to date you? If not, why are you even concerning yourself with potential reasons she wouldn't want to date you? Gotta be positive! Yup. Look at some threads I made. Several were about her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted July 1, 2011 Author Share Posted July 1, 2011 So while we aren't dating. I'm trying to go on "dates" with her. I just want her to realize that we really are great together and hopefully she can overcome her issues. All the while I'm giving her a gentle but steady push. As soon as she tells me to back off, I will. no one is out of your league you have to work on yourself if you think that. i am interested in the pic also. Sorry, I can't send PM's to anybody who is not an Established Member. The forum is set up that way. Link to post Share on other sites
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