ShortFuze Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 There are only 2 classes left in this semester and there is this girl that I'm really attracted to and I would like to get her number so I can get to know her and hang out sometime. The problem is I hardly get a chance to ask her. We talk sometimes but then I never get the chance to ask her to hang out. So if I don't ask her now, I may never see her again for quite sometime. The thing is the last 2 classes...one is optional so she may not go...the 2nd class is the final exam where we just take the final and leave when we are finish. So what should I do? Should I hand her a note? Should I stick a note on her car? or should I just wait for her after class? I know the first 2 options are lame but I don't have many other options with the time I have left. If she finishes the final first..I know she will just leave so that is why I have the note options. Girls how do you feel if a guy you hardly know just hands you a note or leaves one for you on your car? And the waiting after class part...girls, how do you feel if a guy waits for you after class, knowing that he wants to talk to you? The only chance I have with this one is if she attends class on that option day..or if I finish my test before her and wait for her..PLEASE HELP Link to post Share on other sites
HiDDeN PiGLeT Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 awwwww. i think its kinda cute that you would wait for her. i wish my b/f did lil things like that. he always meets me like half way or something. but what if she gets out before you when you have the test? then what. maybe leave her a note and your number or ask her to meet you somewhere. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ShortFuze Posted April 22, 2004 Author Share Posted April 22, 2004 Originally posted by HiDDeN PiGLeT awwwww. i think its kinda cute that you would wait for her. i wish my b/f did lil things like that. he always meets me like half way or something. but what if she gets out before you when you have the test? then what. maybe leave her a note and your number or ask her to meet you somewhere. Thank you for reading the whole thing and understanding my position. I always think about waiting beforehand but then when it comes to it I totally forget about it. I guess the nervousness took it away. So it wouldn't be weird or scary to a girl for a guy to wait for her just to chat? See..that was what I was afraid of if she did finish the test before me. I would be upset with myself. I don't think she would wait cause she probably doesn't know that I want to ask her for her number since I had many chances already but I never did ask her. I perfer the waiting cause the note thing is kinda lame in my view. But I don't have much of a choice. So I'm curious what your reaction be if a guy from your class (that you didn't talk to as much) just handed you a note with his number or asking you to meet him somewhere? Also keep in mind he had all sememster to talk to you but didn't. So since the days are numbered he hands you that note...what would your reaction be? That's my position right now. Your reaction would help alot! Link to post Share on other sites
dolphinsunshyn Posted April 22, 2004 Share Posted April 22, 2004 Your best option is to wait for her after class. However, it is important that you don't rush through the exam just to get done before her. Of course, your grade on the exam is the most important thing. After class wait for her and when she walks out say something like, "so how do you think you did on the exam?" Just keep the conversation casual. If it progresses tell her that you have wanted to talk to her all semester, but couldn't get the nerve because she is so ______ (fill in the blank w/ some complimnet) She'll be flattered. Ask if you could exchange numbers or give her yours. Say you are in the mood the celebrate the end of the semester and ask if she would be interested in joining you. As long as you keep things lighthearted and casual it should go well. If she isn't receptive to any small talk, then she is either not interested or taken. Doesn't ever hurt to try. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author ShortFuze Posted April 29, 2004 Author Share Posted April 29, 2004 As I thought she didn't attend class this week since it was optional. I just went for attendance. But now with one more class left which is the final, I don't have much time and options left to talk to her. As I stated above if she finishes the final first I won't get the chance to wait or talk to her so I'm going to have to go with the note thing right? Should I give her the note in person? OR Should I just put on her winsheild on her car? I rather put it on her car so I don't have to hand it to her since I'm shy. But ladies what would you perfer and which is better to do? Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted April 29, 2004 Share Posted April 29, 2004 i say if you do the notre thing..hand it to her...it's creepy to get random notes on your car. but i would hand it to her after you talked to her, so try to wait and talk- introduce yourself, tell her how you have been too shy to speak with her-girls think that is cute! then give her the note with your phone # and name, maybe write a liitle note to her too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ShortFuze Posted May 4, 2004 Author Share Posted May 4, 2004 Originally posted by tattoomytoe i say if you do the notre thing..hand it to her...it's creepy to get random notes on your car. but i would hand it to her after you talked to her, so try to wait and talk- introduce yourself, tell her how you have been too shy to speak with her-girls think that is cute! then give her the note with your phone # and name, maybe write a liitle note to her too. Yea you are right about the notes on the car..it would be creepy. But I'm also afraid to hand her the note in person but I'll see what I'll do when I'm in the position. Wouldn't it be a bad thing if I told her I was shy to talk to her? Cause don't girls like guys with confidence? And if I told her I been shy the whole semester wouldn't that make me look bad? Link to post Share on other sites
Author ShortFuze Posted May 6, 2004 Author Share Posted May 6, 2004 Just to let eveyrone know: I BLEW IT BIG TIME! I'm really ashamed with myself because I did NOTHING at all. No note..no talk..NOTHING. Everything worked in my favor too because I finished the test before her and stupid me wasn't thinking. I didn't wait for her and I know I should have. I don't know why this happens when I'm in the position I never think about what to do. I panic and worry and do nothing. During the test I was thinking I would wait for her..I had what I wanted to say planned. Now the class is over and I may not see her again since it's college. Pretty sad for me =( Link to post Share on other sites
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