jasper21 Posted April 22, 2004 Posted April 22, 2004 Alright we are both 26 years old and recently got into a relationship the past 1.5 months with a girl I think I love. She has just gotten out of a relationship with a married man 40 years old that she had been seeing for 3.5 years to which she let me know from the start. We started out real fast talking for hours each night on the phone. And had sex 2 weeks into the relationship. she has said that she loved me and I did as well. Everything was going great. Until last week she said she thought things were moving too fast and she wanted to take a break to set her mind straight so I agreed. 4 days went by and I called her, no answer, she called back that same night but I missed the call. We then spoke 2 days later and she didn't say much we only spoke about 20 min and she said she only wants to talk a cople times a week until she gets her head straight and that she will call me. The next night I put a call into her and it has been 3 days and not call back. This is a weird situatuation for me because I am usually the one with no interst in the relationship and gets sick of the girl. but this girl really does it for me and at 26 I know what I can deal with and can't. You know how they say that when you findthe one you love you'll know it, well I know it. But really need some advice on this Do I wait for her to call? or go after the woman I love. If I should wait for her too call how long do I wait?
hurtingandconfused Posted April 22, 2004 Posted April 22, 2004 she wanted to take a break to set her mind straight so I agreed. Give her the time and space she requested. It sounds as if she's confused. Maybe, just maybe you were the rebound guy who knows. she only wants to talk a cople times a week Is this what you want? If not then why are you torturing yourself? If she does not fit your needs then do not talk to her anymore. Do I wait for her to call? Nope or go after the woman I love. Nope I should wait for her too call how long do I wait? Don't wait. She wanted a break and that is final. Until then live your life as you've have been. You are fighting a lost cause.
Timbo Posted April 22, 2004 Posted April 22, 2004 When a partner says they want a break, they mean that "we are over until I say otherwise" - which may be forever. Might as well get started on being over her.
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