sydneysider1978 Posted July 4, 2011 Share Posted July 4, 2011 (edited) Hey All, I've been online for about 5 wks now and I've had about 5 first dates. All these guys are my "type"on paper l and I've had a good time meeting them for coffee or drinks. It takes me a while to build enough rapport with someone to feel comfortable to really flirt with them (touching, teasing, hair flicking, all that stuff) but I've liked 4 of them enough to see them again and just see where it goes. Now, I DO look like my picture (face and full-length shot), haven't lied in any of my stats and these guys definitely have a good time chatting to me. I haven't had any of them ask for second dates or reply to my gentle non-bunny-boiler, I had a good time, I'd like to catch up again, messages. I'm curious to know where I'm going wrong. I know I don't really flirt overtly, that comes with time for me so maybe I come across as a bit cold-fish or don't give the guys enough encouragement. Or maybe they're just not into me in person and I've been unlucky. How flirty do you get on a first meet? Should I fake it until I feel it to keep in the running? Edited July 4, 2011 by sydneysider1978 typo Link to post Share on other sites
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