Do you think my husband seeing his ex destroyed our marriage?

[lilian]

I've known my husband for 9 years and have been married for 6. Ever since we started dating I've had a problem with him still being friends with his ex. He insisted to invite her to our wedding because they have been friends for 20 years, he was out with her when I found out I was pregnant. Etc. Basically for about 1 year there is nothing left between us other than fights. Do you think the cause could be the resentment I feel towards him for ignoring my feelings in this regard for so long?

 

Thank you for your answers!

[buster2209]

If him talking to his ex causes you pain, then you need to sit him down and let him know.

 

That's the only way you can get closure on this.

 

No magic bullets on this one I'm afraid!