rocketgirl138 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 I just broke up with my B/f the other day and on one side it feels good and the other side i'm feeling full of regret. I really love this person but my feelings of hope were diminished right after our argument. Ok, here goes. The straw that broke the camel's back was how he acted the other night while my friend from out of town came by. My b/f and i had plans to meet up after he was done with his job search so when he came by i noticed he was acting strange. He practically ignored us and stared at the television. it felt like a heavy fog in the room. So after a while i pulled him aside and asked if he was OK. He stated that he was fine but his mannerisms said otherwise. I expained that my friend and I felt awkward. He grew very defensive and made a scene. i was very embarrassed. He stated that he was watching the Women's Cup series and that it was only once every 4 years but i felt that he could have communicated that earlier. But i didnt explain his silence plus he looked upset. Anyways, during the evening the three of us went for a walk and after returning my friend and I were talking about things we did while much younger and granted were joking about how we were "the bad kids" growing up which of course my b/f was in fact the opposite. lol So he stated he ha nothing to say on the matter and got up and headed to the living room to watch more television and from what it appeared at the time fell asleep on the couch. I grew a bit apprehensive and my friend and i went for a walk. After we returned i saw that my b/f had gone upstairs and when i went to check in he was bugging out. He stated that he felt weird for us leaving him behind. i said that i saw that he was asleep and didnt want to bother him. He told me that he was in fact awake and saw us leave and that i could have asked him if he was awake. At that point i got snippy and stated that the entire duration of the night he seemed very disinterested and that he could have included himself. Well that didnt go over so well so he violently got up and again made a even a bigger scene so i told him to go home. The next day i found a Facebook post from him basically calling ME a psycho. and to make me feel even more like crappy he posted a comment underneath about how the cup series is only on once every 4 years. I felt so dehumanized Now EVERYONE and their mother saw this! i feel that its wayy to unrepairable because now all of my friends despise him greatly for what he did and to be honest the FB posts have happened more then once. So everybody knows our business which complicates things even more. Uuggh Not to mention my friend was so pissed that he confessed his feeling for me. My head is soo f***ed right now and extremely embarrassed for what my now X did. Link to post Share on other sites
Maoky Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 You broke up over an argument? Please elaborate! This can't be the only reason you guys broke up. How long were you together? And how is the situation with your friend that just confessed to you? It'd be helpful to provide some more detail =) But anyway, cool off for at least a few days right now and don't do anything drastic until you've cleared your head a bit. Facebook is just Facebook. Don't let it get to you and let it seem worse than it really is. Link to post Share on other sites
Author rocketgirl138 Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 thank you for your support. Yes there were a quite a few things going on. One The FB posts just dont stop. He posts every time we have an argument which means everyone knows our business including his overbearing mom. The tantrums in front of the friends have been frequent lately which is embarrassing. one of the major things that made me blow a gasket was the fact he refuses to work a job thats hiring fulltime plus benefits over the fear of using a meat slicer while his unemployment is running out. the worst part of all is that i work in a group home and as im sure you know the tasks that come with that. i work more then one job to make ends meet and while knowing that i have a child and that i broke up with my last b/f for not stepping up in the employment area im a bit shocked. its like he did a 180. its not fair and for him to give me grief about his insecurities. we knew eachother growing up but started dating 8 months back As for my friend who confessed. im a bit shocked we are still freinds. but im not even thinking about that yet. Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 You could repair most of "it" by simply deleting your Facebook (or removing the identifiable substance from it, I mean) Link to post Share on other sites
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