confused_man Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Hi I met Amy when she started to date my friend Alan a few years ago. Now they are engaged. Alan has moved away for grad school last fall and they are in a long distance relationship. I continue to see Amy frequently; we live close to each other and have many common friends and interests. Amy is petite but does not stand out in terms of looks. She usually dresses like a typical woman in her twenties. But recently she wore outfits that seemed very sexy to me. A couple of weeks ago we (group of people) went to an art show she wore sandals with heels and a short dress (the top of the dress was not revealing). Last week (she and me) went shopping for a gift, she wore jeans and a tank top with no bra under it. Two days later I picked her up to go to a party (that’s why we needed the gift). She wore a blouse with the top 3 buttons undone and I think again no bra. Otherwise she acts completely normal. I am not sure what to make of this. Maybe there is nothing and it is all in my head? Should I say something? If yes, to whom Amy or Alan? Should I avoid her? Thank you for any help Link to post Share on other sites
Coil Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 sounds like a tough situation. One red flag in my opinion. Is she acting extra flirty combined with this sexy new look? I would just take notes for now and not mention anything to either personally, unless it gets stepped up. Link to post Share on other sites
Rose T Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 It could be nothing. Where do you guys live? If it's really hot at the moment that could explain the change of outfit. I know that I dress completely differently in the summer, not just because of the weather, but because it's the only time of year you can show a bit of skin - I'd do this whether I was around a SO or not. The clue would have to be in her behaviour, I don't think that clothes mean anything. Link to post Share on other sites
Author confused_man Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 Thank you – It has been warm recently and hse does not behave differently. I guess all in my head. I am relieved given that I’ll see her tonight and this weekend. Again thank you for the feedback. Link to post Share on other sites
Memphis Raines Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 "Finance of friend dresses sexy around me" don't flatter yourself Link to post Share on other sites
elleorbianca Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 Maybe she was dressed that way because you guys were going to "events". Seems like it has nothing to do with you. Maybe you just want her and want to pretend that she wants you. *shrugs* Link to post Share on other sites
thatone Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 she dresses that way because she's looking to cheat on the guy now that he's far enough away for her to get away with it, don't fool yourselves. Link to post Share on other sites
elleorbianca Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 she dresses that way because she's looking to cheat on the guy now that he's far enough away for her to get away with it, don't fool yourselves. Wow, some men are delusional or bitter. Or both The outfits described don't even sound particularly sexy. She just needs to know that no matter the weather or how small your boobs are, all women should wear a bra Link to post Share on other sites
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