micot Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 hi people i'm the new guy around here . well my girl and i broke it off after 6 yrs about a month ago .we had no contact at first then limited [our family members had health issues and w'd check to see how they were] we don't really have mutual friends . i got no reason when she left me it was out of the blue i got the i don't love you anymore and you've done nothing wrong answers to why . she's been seeing some guy now with small kids she is divorced and has 2 teenage kids she's 50 i'm 47 i never been married or have kids . tonight she is suposed to stop by my place to grab some things i've asked her numerous tmes after we broke up to just sit and talk with me we never have tonight i just want to tell her i know she's seeing another it's all fact [i've seen them together myself ] it hurt bad. am i doing rigt by just out right telling her what i know ?even offering to forgive and maybe go back to square one with her ? i feel 6 yrs exclusivley together and thetime we both put in is worth another shot it was a more good than bad 6 yrs . Link to post Share on other sites
Exit Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Won't do any good to really be confrontational about it, I guess you could casually try to bring up the topic of seeing other people and see if she admits to it. The 6 years may be worth saving to you but there's not much you can do if it isn't worth as much to her. Don't try to trap her in a discussion just because she is coming to get her things, but you could politely ask that since she's already there, if you could have a few minutes together. Link to post Share on other sites
Author micot Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 no nothing confrontational no yelling finger pointing etc me bitting my tongue and just saying i know you're seeing someone now i know because in my town i live off the main strip where all the bars/clubs restaurants and stores are and i've seen them either entering a place together or leaving also i work down the road from her and seen his car in her driveway sometimes before work or after . i'm not looking to trap her or fight just talk and see if we still can attempt to work us out we did have 6 good years together and i believe it's worth salvaging but i know it takes 2 to agree if only she would open up to me and tell me what is / went wrong whatever it is i know we can work it out even if we need some kind of councelling their was big time feelings between us Link to post Share on other sites
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