Author Mark1 Posted August 8, 2011 Author Posted August 8, 2011 Then just go with the flow and stop thinking so much! The day I find out what go with the flow means, will the day I'll be rich.
Author Mark1 Posted August 8, 2011 Author Posted August 8, 2011 I think I'll try and increase the touching, and see what happens.
betterdeal Posted August 8, 2011 Posted August 8, 2011 The day I find out what go with the flow means, will the day I'll be rich. Ever been skiing or rafting? Try it. Try yoga too.
Author Mark1 Posted August 8, 2011 Author Posted August 8, 2011 Ever been skiing or rafting? Try it. Try yoga too. LOL, cmon now. I've been thinking about it, and facebook makes it seem she's pretty close with her BF, so I doubt I'll get an in. I'm just gonna be more physical, and see what happens, but I probably won't ask her if its open or tell her my feelings.
CatNtheHat Posted August 8, 2011 Posted August 8, 2011 Could someone explain to me why girls with boyfriends flirt? Example: I met a girl from class at a campus bar. We didn't talk much in class, but we recognized each other and said hello. We flirted, touched, etc. She wasn't drunk at all, and neither was I. Her parents were there for graduation weekend, and she even introduced me to her parents. After talked for a little bit, I asked her, "what are you doing tomorrow night?" and she said, with her head resting against my chest, "hanging out with you of course." She gives me her number, tells me to text her the next night after 10pm to get together. I'm really excited, so I do so. Reply from her reads, "hey! Im at xyz bar with my boyfriend, you should come!" So I'm like "wtf." I go with my boys anyway, and she spots me and motions me to come over. Doesn't introduce me to her boyfriend who is sitting right there, and flirts with me a bit to boot. Her and I are now trying to get together sometime for dinner. What gives in this situation, and why do girls do this? Dinner? why? she has a boyfriend! Don't get it.
Author Mark1 Posted August 8, 2011 Author Posted August 8, 2011 Honestly, I dont feel comfortable asking her the status of her relationship, because based on facebook, it seems pretty legit. I'm not sure how much more physical I can get than kissing her on the cheek, though.
CatNtheHat Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 Honestly, I dont feel comfortable asking her the status of her relationship, because based on facebook, it seems pretty legit. I'm not sure how much more physical I can get than kissing her on the cheek, though. why? she has a BF?! leave her alone. Can't you find a single girl?
Author Mark1 Posted August 9, 2011 Author Posted August 9, 2011 Meeting with her in an hour. I was thinking of being like, "so are you this flirty with everyone, or just me?"
Author Mark1 Posted August 9, 2011 Author Posted August 9, 2011 Meeting with her in an hour. I was thinking of being like, "so are you this flirty with everyone, or just me?" Any thoughts? 20 mins! LOL
Author Mark1 Posted August 9, 2011 Author Posted August 9, 2011 Back. More of the same. Flirting, holding hands briefly, arms around each other. She mentioned him once, not by name. She joked about me and her living together on the beach sometime. She told me her new job allows her to be closer to where I live. Wants to get together for drinks in a few weekends. Im back at work and smell like her perfume. I have no idea what to do.
betterdeal Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 Just have a wank and get on with your life. It is what it is.
CatNtheHat Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 Meeting with her in an hour. I was thinking of being like, "so are you this flirty with everyone, or just me?" Guess you can't find a single woman. I think you are pathetic for going after a woman in a relationship. What goes around comes around. Even IF she dumped her man to be with you, she will probably cheat on you too.
Author Mark1 Posted August 9, 2011 Author Posted August 9, 2011 This girl makes me happy when Im with her. Someone just tell me what to do, and I'll do it.
CatNtheHat Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 This girl makes me happy when Im with her. Someone just tell me what to do, and I'll do it. Leave her alone. If she wants to be with you she would dump her boyfriend. Its like talking to a rock.
Cracker Jack Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 Confess your love to her, then. No, but seriously--I have no idea. I would say you need to move on, but I'm sure you don't want to hear that. When I was in a similar situation, I actually told the girl I had feelings for her, and she reciprocated. I just...had no idea what to do after that because I felt bad about it. Once I made no further moves, she just lost interest. I tried to just "enjoy" the friendship, but that was next to impossible for me. Situations like this are complicated. Best to just leave them alone, I say.
Author Mark1 Posted August 16, 2011 Author Posted August 16, 2011 She got a new job and said w her new income she's gonna take me out to dinner.
phineas Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 Met a woman at a party. She was flirty, said she was going to a bar a few blocks from my house & I should stop by. On my way home I did. Met her boyfriend. LOL! Then she left. Double LOL!
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