effee Posted April 22, 2004 Share Posted April 22, 2004 Okay, so you may know, my ex and parted suddenly, i caught her 2 timing me red handed and broke off with her the next day... well its been 9 days since we broke up, the first 1-2 days came the explanations, then 3-5 days we were fine with each other.. after that on the 6th day i found out she lied to me even after the break up (she sent a wrong text msg by accident to me saying she wanted to find trouble with me) after i questioned her about it she made up some story about her friend using her phone. I asked her friend and found out she was lying, that was on the 7th day we broke. no contact since then, i've sent her a few smses saying i still care about her and i hope that she's happy with her new bf, but i've never got a reply back.. I really tried to forget her but some part of me cant.. i even got all my stuff i gave her, put it in a bag and put in in a drawer which i hardly ever open to forget her..but at night, when im alone, i start to think, What did i do wrong? How could this happen? I cry sometimes thinking what went wrong.. I just cant forget her.. Link to post Share on other sites
Becks84 Posted April 22, 2004 Share Posted April 22, 2004 She cheated and does not seem remorseful. She doesnt deserve you. DO NOT blame yourself for her cheating! The things people do to us are because of THEM, not US. I have read two books on just this! ("The 4 Agreements" - check it out if you're into that stuff at all.) She's just gonna keep messing with your head and playing childish games for as long as you let her. SHe should be the one telling you she cares and hopes you're doing well. I would back off, and see if she comes to you. Right now, her heart is not in the right place for you two to be together. I realize you are hurting and cannot see past being miserable...but I promise it gets better. TIME is the ultimate healer. Good luck!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author effee Posted April 22, 2004 Author Share Posted April 22, 2004 thank you, i take comfort in your words.. Link to post Share on other sites
kgal Posted April 22, 2004 Share Posted April 22, 2004 Well...it's normal to feel that...and to think those things when your alone at night. But things are best for you w/out having a cheating gf...dont you think? I mean...you've got to be glad that someone is out there whom God knows would never treat you like that. I know its hard..but you have to think positively as much as you think negatively..perhaps more...just so you can keep moving forward. Taking a day at a time and pacing yourself is a good start. I hope you feel better soon. Link to post Share on other sites
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