Author Desperatefortrut Posted July 7, 2011 Author Share Posted July 7, 2011 Sorry, I'm not the best at it. I tend to say too much. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 I just think some people thought he was still seeing her. Not me. I do know however, that he is still lying to you about her. I'd bet my bottom dollar on it. And personally I would not want a relationship, especially one involving marriage, with a liar. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Desperatefortrut Posted July 8, 2011 Author Share Posted July 8, 2011 Not me. I do know however, that he is still lying to you about her. I'd bet my bottom dollar on it. And personally I would not want a relationship, especially one involving marriage, with a liar. No, I really know that he is not. We live in a small town and have mutual 'friends' who would take great pleasure in informing everyone if they were in touch. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 I don't mean about being in touch, I mean about what happened that night. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Desperatefortrut Posted July 8, 2011 Author Share Posted July 8, 2011 Yes but what's forgivable? It was a date. I'd never met him before. Ok it's not great but we weren't official at that time. We barely knew each other. Plus both of them swore nothing happened. He's only slept with 4 people in his life....it's not like he can't control himself. His sex drive isn't sky high anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 That is a question only you can answer. Personally I'd forgive the act, but the lying is more of an issue. I wouldn't want a relationship with someone who can't be honest with me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Desperatefortrut Posted July 8, 2011 Author Share Posted July 8, 2011 Yes that is the hardest thing. He said he lied because he was worried I wouldn't see him again. I know that doesn't make it right. I have made it clear that I will not stay around if I ever find out he's lied again. Link to post Share on other sites
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