Chine Posted September 5, 2000 Share Posted September 5, 2000 Thie topic may sound disgusting to some of you, but recently I dated this older man (way too old for me!)who told me he had gotten an operation on his penis to enhance his sex life, as he is diabetec and was having certain problems "lasting" in bed. He told me that he could last "hours on end" with this new pump that had been added. The fact that this man told me all about his operation and all the benefits he had in his sex life, he was even vanting about it a bit, really turned me off! I mean, why would he have to advertise like that? Anyhow, my question is: Do pumps really help older men? Do you women have any experience with these types of situations? I was attracted to this guy, but now that he mentioned this stuff I am a bit afraid! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted September 5, 2000 Share Posted September 5, 2000 Medical literature recognizes the pump appliance as one way men with erectile dysfunction can regain the ability to have an erection. There are also shots and other means as well. The devises function quite well for those who use them. Your post is confusing because you said the man was way too old for you and his talk about his pump turned you off. Yet you seem really interested in his sexual ability and you stated you were attracted to him. I think he may have been presumptive telling you about his erection strategies on an initial date. However, he was probably very attracted to you and figured you ought to know about his situation right up front. If you were attracted to him and he is a nice guy, admire him for his up front honesty and give him a chance. You might find your ultimate experience with him to be quite extraordinary. He probably considers himself a pretty lucky stiff for meeting you. Link to post Share on other sites
cifrin Posted September 5, 2000 Share Posted September 5, 2000 Thats pretty discusting thing to share... thats like telling a guy about a yeast infection medication that worked well for you... maybe if he saw the situation arising where you might NEED to know he could warn you... the penis pump just basically draws blood into the penis so he can have an erection... I don't know the need for him to make your date into an infomercial....I can understand you losing interest in him fast but maybe you should just stick to younger strapping guys .... that don't need to brag or take viagra Link to post Share on other sites
Deejette Posted September 5, 2000 Share Posted September 5, 2000 I don't think it is very romantic to talk about penis pumps up front like that. It sounds too mechanical to be a real turn-on. But I agree that he was being honest and up-front with you. It's just that he cut to the chase too fast, assuming that you wanted to get it on with him that way before you even got to know him. Thats pretty discusting thing to share... thats like telling a guy about a yeast infection medication that worked well for you... maybe if he saw the situation arising where you might NEED to know he could warn you... the penis pump just basically draws blood into the penis so he can have an erection... I don't know the need for him to make your date into an infomercial....I can understand you losing interest in him fast but maybe you should just stick to younger strapping guys .... that don't need to brag or take viagra Link to post Share on other sites
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