is it frienship or is it more?

[elizabeth]

hi!me and this guy where seeing each other.i really liked him a lot.things were moving kinda fast.before i even expected it he was telling me he was developing mad feelings for me,how i was the only one he cared about.at first i didn't know how to respond,but with time he was all i would think about.i met his family,they all liked me,everything seemed to be going perfect,until one day he called me up to tell me that he wanted to slow things down,and that he wanted to keeep contact with me,because besises being the girl he liked,he said he also viewed me as best friend.i was torn apart,but for him i was willing to do anything,and so i agreeed with no complaints,as if that was what i wanted too!in the last couple of months we still call each other,hang out and we are still messing. sometimes we flirt so much,that a third person would think we are a couple.other times i just think we're friends.still today my sleepless nights are spent thinking about him....i wish i would know if i still pass through his mind.i dunno...all i know is that i still have mad feelings for this guy.sometimes i want to tell him how i really feel,but the timing is never right.may be during x-mas brake.i'm so insecure about this!he is soooo fine,popular,sweet,everything a girl would want,and now he's not mine to have and to hold....i took him as a whole,not only for his apperance but for everything that he is...now it's over but i'm still hung up over him,questioning if he still cares.any advice?are we just friends orfriends waiting to get back together?help,i'm so confused...

[Hoggy]

hi!me and this guy where seeing each other.i really liked him a lot.things were moving kinda fast.before i even expected it he was telling me he was developing mad feelings for me,how i was the only one he cared about.at first i didn't know how to respond,but with time he was all i would think about.i met his family,they all liked me,everything seemed to be going perfect,until one day he called me up to tell me that he wanted to slow things down,and that he wanted to keeep contact with me,because besises being the girl he liked,he said he also viewed me as best friend.i was torn apart,but for him i was willing to do anything,and so i agreeed with no complaints,as if that was what i wanted too!in the last couple of months we still call each other,hang out and we are still messing. sometimes we flirt so much,that a third person would think we are a couple.other times i just think we're friends.still today my sleepless nights are spent thinking about him....i wish i would know if i still pass through his mind.i dunno...all i know is that i still have mad feelings for this guy.sometimes i want to tell him how i really feel,but the timing is never right.may be during x-mas brake.i'm so insecure about this!he is soooo fine,popular,sweet,everything a girl would want,and now he's not mine to have and to hold....i took him as a whole,not only for his apperance but for everything that he is...now it's over but i'm still hung up over him,questioning if he still cares.any advice?are we just friends orfriends waiting to get back together?help,i'm so confused...

 

men are like rubber bands we strech away before we can come back and away and back even after marrige.

 

howeveer young ones confuse this with having the milk so why should i buy the cow: do him a favor only give him so much time!!!make sure you love yourself as much as him!!!!!!