polaritch Posted April 22, 2004 Share Posted April 22, 2004 please bare with me this is gonna be long *hehe* i was friends with this guy named david for over 2 yrs before we decided we wanted to be together. we started to date and things were perfect! we talked about how when he joined the air force that we would stay together and how i would eventually go to where he was stationed and the talk of marriage and family came up even told each other "i think i am falling in love with you". but a while after we started to date we were in a car wreck. and he had to have emergency surgery to remove his spline due to the accident. i was there with him almost 24/7. well, when he went home from the hospital his family got very protective and because he was still recovering wasnt able to do alot of things alone. because of their protectiveness we lost contact (also partially because he left for the air force and was unable to get a hold of me cause i was not home) until a few days ago (its been about 2 yrs since we last spoke) when i finally was able to locate him (he had been looking for me as well but i changed emails, phone number etc). the feelings i had for him back then are still there and though i tried to date someone else. i never fully got over him and never felt for the other person what i feel for david. how we lost contact etc has been topic for much of our talk and i really want to tell him the feelings are still there if not even stronger than they were. all together ive known him over 4 yrs and it feels like a lifetime. we are so much alike and yet different in our own way and it really worked for us. but after all this time im scared to ask him if the feelings are there nad or if we could try to date because everyone tells me that dating someone in the military is not a good idea because either "they arent faithful" or "the distance will hurt" etc. but i really love him, and feel we can make it worth cause we clicque. i always said i would marry the man that took my breathe away when we kiss and he does..even hearing his voice takes my breathe away. should i give it a shot? should i at least tell him my feelings? any advice? BTW he is stationed in Las Vegas and I am in Virginia (about 30 mins from his family)... PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR ADVICE Link to post Share on other sites
26thAquarius Posted April 23, 2004 Share Posted April 23, 2004 Personally I think you should tell him your feelings. He knew in the past how you felt about him and if he took the time to look for you again, maybe he is hoping that you still feel the same. Give it a shot! You'll never know until you try. GOOD LUCK! Link to post Share on other sites
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