Trying to get back with his ex but flirting with me at the same time

[sarah1982]

I met a guy three months ago and we are having great time together, but we were not in a relationship, just dating. He seems he likes me and I was interested in him from the beginning. After the second month I tried to cut off from him, as he did not seem that he will make a move. However he seemed to try even more to win me over, by calling me more often and arranging to go out, by ourselves. I thought to give the guy a second chance, without knowing if we were going to be in a relationship or not. The problem is however that I learned that he was going out with another girl before he met me and that even if they broke up he is still calling her and also going out with her, every now and then, as she is playing it hard to get, as her friend informed me. However the girl is according to her saying, not interested in him any more . What I want to ask is what should I do with all this? Should I continue to see him? Or he is still in love with his ex and I should stay away? Is he trying to get involved with me or he is just flirting until his ex comes back to him? At the moment I am not talking to him as we used to but I do say a quick hi every time I see him around.

I have to note that he didn’t tell me for his ex and that at some point he said that a friend of his has a problem, as there are two girls that he likes but the one is really nice and good for him but he still wants the one that ignores him because he ignores him. Should I think he was talking for himself? and if so what is my position? All my friends both guys and girls, that have seen him say that he seems interested in me. I am confused. I do go out and met many people, but as we have lots of fun together I don’t know what I should do. He is really shy and not with a lot of experience in women.