simplyloving Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 can a wife expect for her man to learn swagger? im so frustrated. my husband has everything but the looks, body and swagger. men, how do show your husband he is sexy? im struggling to feel attraction. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 But you never had those feelings for your husband according to your other thread. Why did you marry him? Link to post Share on other sites
Alfie Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 this can be so hard to deal with. I know with my ex he was open to suggestions, and pretty soon he was open to changing the way he dresses, or maybe his facial hair, he lost some weight and toned up, just talk to your husband, maybe he can work on his appearance a bit more Link to post Share on other sites
woman28 Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 I understand the situation you´re in because I´m in it myself. It´s actually the reason why I registered on LS Unfortunately I´m one of those women! In my case I THINK I made the wrong decision when I married a wonderfull man with lots of characteristics other men don´t have, and characteristics women are searching for. He really listens, and really cares for me. He´s good looking (Colin Farrell type... and with just a LITTLE bit of exercise he wil have the same body also). Further, we have good conversations daily, bla bla bla Don´t understand me wrong, because I know those things are very! important. But even with all those characteristics I still have the feeling I´m missing something. Weird huh... because you would think I should feel attracted to him since he´s good looking. I´m also married for 5 years now, and from day ONE I have been "feeling something´s not right"... just like you. The same questions you are asking, are few of the questions that are going on my mind for a while now... I´m still searching for answers to lots of questions myself, so i cant really give you any advice. But still I want you to ask yourself if you think it´s really because of the way he looks? In my case looks don´t change anything. May be I will start a thread later myself. By the way, there´s another thread on LS you will like, I´ll post it later on. Greetings from Europe! Link to post Share on other sites
woman28 Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 this can be so hard to deal with. I know with my ex he was open to suggestions, and pretty soon he was open to changing the way he dresses, or maybe his facial hair, he lost some weight and toned up, just talk to your husband, maybe he can work on his appearance a bit more Hi Alfie, Did changing himself have any effects on your feelings for him? Probably not, cause he´s your ex now ... or did you break up for another reason? Link to post Share on other sites
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