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Heatemyheart89

I've been feeling really down and lost lately.I've realised how unhappy I am and how much I'm stuck in a rut.I don't enjoy my job don't have many friends and I'm single .I still miss and can't get over an ex Boyfriend who doesn't care about me and thinks I'm a psycho .I just look in the mirror and I'm bored of who I am I don't get any guys after me except the ones who chase anything in a skirt.I've got two more years of university and I'm finding it hard to keep it together and see the point in it.Not sure what to do help!

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lovelydemon

It sounds like you are having a bad day, you don't feel this way about your life every minute of every day, do you? If you do you probably have depression.

 

I get this way quite often, what I found works for me is to find the part of my life that I feel makes me most unhappy and start working on it, nothing major, just doing something, one day at a time. If it is job situation start looking online, just looking for now, 3 times a week at least. Then create your resume, just for yourself, you are not sending it anywhere yet, see how it looks and what areas can be improved, there is no deadline to finish your resume so you can make it look as great as you want with time. One day while looking online you'll see a job that would be a reasonable match and you'll send your resume for the first time. It's only nerve wrecking for the first time and you can send your resume to other not so good matches, even those that you feel are out of your reach. Next thing you know you are getting interviews and a new job.

This applies to other areas of life too, just take little steps at a time and be easy on yourself, you don't have to be perfect, just happy :)

Take care,

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